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I hate the penis, but dreamt I liked it on a woman...What does this mean?

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Question - (1 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, I edited it, please post. I saw a question about a woman who dreamt she was a hermaphrodite, and it reminded me i had a similar dream last night.

IN REALITY I'm an 18 year old gay girl and My 17 year old step sister recently tried to set me up with one of her openly bi friends (girl A, Alice) that thought i was quite fit. So we flirted quite a bit beforehand on FB, I thought she was alright, kind of cute. Then my sister tried to set us up at her party, and things went well for all of about 5 minutes, I had my hand on her waist, then i went to get her one of my jaegermeisters from the back room and when I got back She was with the girl (girl B, Bella) she had had a crush on since forever as my dozy sister had invited her too. Fair do's, she'd only known me 5 minutes.

Well they kissed apparently and unfortunately some underage people at the party spotted my booze and being a soft touch one thing led to another, and somehow while they were smooching I ended up smoking outside with a load of drunk old men moaning about love and philosophy while remarking at the number of teenagers suspiciously falling over and laughing at themselves.

ANYWAY, Alice and Bella got together about 2 weeks later properly. And that lasted all of one week, before openly bi Alice realised she wasn't attracted to girls. lol. And the other girl, bella who had been in the closet and come out to everyone including her strict catholic parents was not best pleased.

IN MY DREAM, there was a second party. And at this party they were still together. However, they went into the toilets and there was loud screaming. They ran out and Alice looked really freaked out and disgusted and Bella looked dissapointed and embarrased. Alice said it was over, saying she was into girls, and ran off. I went over to bella to ask her what happened. And then she looked down and I looked down, and she had a huge masculine bulge under her purple velvet dress, and for some reason, I was INCREDIBLY attracted to her because of this. And she looked like she was about to cry so I gave her a side hug and she explained that she had learnt to accept herself, and she quite liked her male member and wanted to keep it and thats why it upset her that Alice couldn't accept it. And the whole while i was just ridiculously aroused and so confused by the way I felt, I mean alice and bella are equally attractive I would say, but Bella's concealed weapon in that dress really did it for me for some reason. And I was being all comforting and touchy feely and saying how crazy Alice was because I found it so sexy and I had one arm round her shoulders and was running my other hand over her dress until i found the bulge and felt more attracted to her than ever. And at that moment I woke up feeling disappointed and confused at the same time.

In reality I hate male reproductive organs and would rather be the one wearing the strappable substitute any day than the other way round.I am so confused right now, It's having that wierd effect on me where I'll be convinced I want something for about two days. Like if I dream aboutsomething happening with a particular girl I wouldn't normally fancy I will be temporarily attracted to her. I'm currently curious now not so much for Bella but for hermaphrodite girls........thanks brain. But I wanted to know if this dream means anything? what do you think?

PS. Bella and Alice aren't real names, and I'm not a prude using euphemisms, I just want my question to get accepted this time, so i toned it down.

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2011):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntHey there, im a lesbian, i have 0% attraction to men but have had dreams where i have enjoyed sex with a man. But that is all they are, dreams. They mean nothing to who or what you are in reality no matter how weird they may have been, think of all the weird dreams you have had in your life that meant nothing.

Just stop stressing and dont worry!

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (1 April 2011):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntIt doesn't need to MEAN anything - dreams rarely do. And if it did, you wouldn't be the first woman attracted to transexuals, I suppose :) I know I am.

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