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writes: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and after a year of being really happy together we decided to move in to his flat together, now all we do is argue especially when I have been drinking. Everytime we go out I get blind drunk and cannot control my actions. I get so drunk I can't remember what I've said or done. My boyfriend say's I'm nasty and I have embarassed him in front of his friends.I do feel a bit insecure living in the flat he owns and I have also been snooping through his phone, but my main concern is the drinking, I don't mean to get that drunk but I dont seem to know how to control it. He is a wonderful guy and does nothing wrong and I dont want to lose him but I feel it is going to ruin our relationship.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (2 December 2005):
 Lay off the sauce, sister. Not a drop, you are showing every sign of alcoholism. Find the nearest AA group and start attending before you destroy your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): My girlfriend does this sometimes nd yes it's pretty annoying. Iv'e also found her in her room with another guy but they didn;t seem to be doing anything, and I believed her when she said that they weren'tThe most obvious answer is to just drink less! if you cant control yourself then you will lose him.
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reader, deirde +, writes (2 December 2005):
Well you have over come the first part of this shopie, you have admitted to yourself that you have problem when you drink.You love this man I can tell from your question, talk your problem out together and ask him for his support. Get help from a support group who help people who have a drink problem. Don't let some foolish drinking harm your relationship with your partner of 2 years.Sort it out together and be there for each other in you time of need.Get help to stop drinkin if you love him enough you will do this for both of your sakes.
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