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female
age
30-35,
*yra
writes:I was recently seeing someone that I loved so much. He was also "my first". I found out he had some other girl he was attracted to but couldn't get anything real started with her because we were still together. Soooo... I kinda told him I wanted him to be happy, even if it meant being with someone else...At the time I meant it, but now I reeeeaaaally want him back. What do I do without looking stupid? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 December 2011):
 Why do you want him back?
let's start with that.
I realize that for most women "he was my first" carries a lot of emotional weight... sometimes we have to let that go.
so what about this man do you love?
how he respects you
how he wants YOU
how he adores you?
or is it the whole "i want what i can't have" thing?
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female
reader, k_c100  +, writes (2 December 2011):
 Why do you want to be with a man who wants to be with another girl instead of you? Where is your self respect?!
You can do better, dont waste your time going back to him - instead look for a man who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him.
This guy is interested in someone else, he doesnt want you he wants her - it couldnt be more clear that this relationship is never going to work and there is no point in going back.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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