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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,Please can someone give me some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 and a half years, we enjoy each others company and love each other so much. The problem is that im starting to think about the future id like to live with him, and maybe think about starting a family and marriage etc.. But hes happy still living with his parents and doesnt have any intention of this for a few years. I dont want to break up with him because i really love him, but apart of me thinks do i want to wait that long? should i wait for him or move on? i dont want to put pressure on him but i feel after 4 years i want more committment. i'm not a little girl anymore and want to get more serious. it makes me feel miserable, but i really love him. what should i do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 December 2011):
 You need to tell him how you feel. He needs to know the way you are feeling. Communication is key here, so sit down with him and tell him how you have been feeling. Ask him what he wants to do and just see how the conversation goes.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (2 December 2011):
 Why is he still living with at home with his parents?
Have you two ever talked about a future together?
The first step would be to move in together. Why not bring up the subject with him?
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