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female
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30-35,
*lorm
writes:I found used oral contraceptive in my boyfriend room which I didn't use and also found 3 condoms under his pillow I asked him and he said he just bought it. Please what should I do
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 September 2016):
 I guess you mean a empty packed for the pill? Or morning after pill? If that is the case, I would end things. I would not be able to trust someone who had this in there room without a very good explanation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2016): The oral contraceptive was USED you say. And NOT used by YOU? Correct?
I would say this is pretty damning evidence.
Right there.
That is the clincher.
The condoms don't even matter. Although they just add even MORE credibility to the fact he IS CHEATING.
This relationship is OVER.
Sorry.
Do not give him a chance to smooth talk his way out.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (26 September 2016):
 On the plus side, the fact that he cares about contraception is something that some young men never do. If he intended their use with you then he has at least been considerate enough not to want to put you in the 'family way'.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (26 September 2016):
 I'd be getting out of this relationship. If these contraceptives aren't yours, and your boyfriend doesn't normally use condoms with you, I wouldn't even bother waiting for whatever explanation he giving - RUN!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (26 September 2016):
 A used oral contraceptive? You mean an empty pill container? I’m trying to understand what a used oral contraceptive would be.
Were the condoms under his pillow in their wrappers or used?
Are you sexually active with your boyfriend? Do you use condoms with your boyfriend? If not, do NOT have sex with him without condoms. If he’s bought them, they are being used for a reason.
If you are not sexually active with your boyfriend and the condoms were in their wrappers and unused, is it possible that he’s been hoping to have sex with you?
It does sound dodgy indeed, if you’ve been having sex without condoms and you don’t use oral contraceptives.
More info would be needed for the aunts here to answer this question with any accuracy.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (26 September 2016):
 I'd wish him well and end it.
Why would he buy oral contraception to have to lie around his room? I call absolute BS. And condoms UNDER his pillow? Unless you two are sexually active and use condoms, I just don't see it being anything but a shady act.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (25 September 2016):
Why would your boyfriend want oral contraceptives? They should be administered by a qualified medical practitioner to a woman. It sounds dodgy.
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