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writes:Ok so my new boyfriend pete that i had a crush on for 5 years and i finally got him =D.But ive never had a boyfriend before i dont really know what to do thats sweet, and something he will love me for and most of my friends do really cute things for theie boyfriends and it seems like they're the perfect couple and i want us to be the adorable couple too. But i have no idea what i could do so that he would appreciate me for and i really like him and i can tell he really likes me too. Please help...x any advice will be very much appreciated
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reader, bonym +, writes (8 September 2006):
 Hiya, no I am not disappointed but I am still happy for you though either way!!! I am glad when people can find true happiness!!! All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey,Thankyou all for your answers they've helped alot, no i wasnt the on who posted "pete is AMAZING, shall i go for it?" sorry to disappoint you if thats who you were expecting. But thankyou all, your advice was very much appreciated....x
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reader, bonym +, writes (7 September 2006):
Hi babes, are you the girl who was the poster of the question "Pete is AMAZING shall I go for it?"
If so CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! I am glad you got your Pete, the one I work with who is MARRIED has just returned from holiday with the finest tan and what looks like a freshly polished wedding band, so I have no chance anyway,and the other Pete I work with who is older than me, well, I have the feeling he is taken too DAMN!!
Anyway, enough of my foolish problems, I am glad you got it together, why not as Snowie said, send some cute text mesages but more to the point, you need to find out what floats his boat, get to know his hobbies, interests, what music he likes etc and surprise him with a small gift that you know he would appreciate. Remember babes, he is with you because he likes you, spend lots of time with him and get to know him more. Good luck. xXx
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (7 September 2006):
 Send him cute text messages - about nothing in particular, out of the blue, to let him know you are thinking of him..not too often, but a couple of times a week, perhaps.
Find out what he likes to eat, and what all his favourite foods are, and a few weeks later, prove that you remember all he said by cooking him a meal containing all his favourites! - Also remember what his favourite music is, and play that whilst you are eating. That will show him that he is on your mind, and he will love that!
Recall good times you have shared together, and make him realise that you are really into him. Above all, (I don't think you will go far wrong, as you do seem very thoughtful), just relax and don't obsess about it! You sound just lovely anyway, and I am certain he appreciates you for that, and his feelings will grow in time, as you share more experiences together. Just keep doing fun things so you build a store of happy memories to share!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2006): Worry less about how adorable these things will make you look to others and start paying attention to things he might like. What are his hobbies and interests? The more thought you put into doing nice things for people, the more appreciative they'll generally be. A wad of cash would certainly be nice for almost anyone, but something especially suited to his tastes, even if it isn't expensive or flashy, shows that you care.
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