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I feel like she doesn't love me and I can't trust her!

Q.   I have a jelousy problem with my GF, she apparently lost her virginity with some asshole in another town, but she isnt sure, she said she was drunk and she didnt feel like she did when she woke up. Now i feel protective of her, when ever she talks ...

A.   21 June 2009: Ok, not even reading your explanation, just your heading: if you can't trust the person you're with, move on. Good relationships require respect, honesty, compromise and TRUST. MOVE ON.... (read in full...)

What exacly is a fantasy?

Q.   Hello! So, I have been wondering lately: What exactly is a fantasy? Can a fantasy be something that turns you on and you dream or fantasize about but can never actually see yourself doing or participating in? For example, what if a girl has a fan...

A.   21 June 2009: I don't understand your question, but maybe Webster can help you out: 1: obsolete : hallucination 2: fancy ; especially : the free play of creative imagination 3: a creation of the imaginative faculty whether expressed or merely conc... (read in full...)

I like him but he's the ex of a good friend of mine. Will I get hurt?

Q.   I like this boy who likes me. We play on the same sand volleyball league and have hung out with each other outside of volleyball. We've kissed, but that's the extent of what we've done. He seems to be a good guy, he's funny, and we get along great. ...

A.   21 June 2009: Clearly your friend is NOT over this guy. Personally, I don't believe in dating friends' exes, simply because I cherish my friends and what we've built. If you're willing to risk your friendship for something that you think may be a good idea, go ... (read in full...)

Would it be in bad taste for me to mail these tickets to her?

Q.   My female friend and I have known each other 18 months. We were as close as dating without actually dating and were the best of friends. Three months back we "broke up" after I started an argument at a party with her. She never stopped talking to ...

A.   21 June 2009: I think that's an incredible idea. SEND THEM! Send them with an apology note or something. Let her know how much you care about her. Even if the fight wasn't your fault, just admit fault and be done with it. One of the biggest turn-offs about a ... (read in full...)

Sex while on your period?

Q.   just a dumb question... Can u have sex while a girl is on her period?...

A.   21 June 2009: Absolutely. Orgasm can actually relieve cramping. The only thing to consider is that both partners are fully consenting.... (read in full...)

Why couldnt he have just told me he was not interested?

Q.   http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-wait-or-make-the-next-move.html i wrote this question back in feb after id met this amazin guy! i thought it went great. he text me after we'd met, he said he liked me, he asked me if we were meetin a...

A.   21 June 2009: Sounds like either you suffocated him somehow, which seems unlikely seeing as how you guys had limited meetings if I understand correctly. The other option could be that he did in fact find someone else. Did his parents like you? You didn't give his ... (read in full...)

All these things he does means he likes me?

Q.   hey. Okay, my problem is that there's a guy who's three, almost four years older than me and I'm only fifteen. When ever I'm around him, he gets quiet. But when he's farther away from me he tries to bring attention to himself. My mother has also ...

A.   21 June 2009: Probably, but not necessarily and I don't know where you live, but here in California, that's known as "Statutory Rape" and is punishable by law. You should take caution and look into laws for your location.... (read in full...)

Love then hate...but I love her now so what can I do?

Q.   i love a girl in my college .when the college opened she was loving me . but after some misunderstanding created by some other students in the college she just started hating me. from the beginig i hate her but now i am in love with her after ...

A.   21 June 2009: If she believes everything that other people tell her, she's not going to get very far in this world. If you didn't do anything wrong, you didn't. If she believes it, she does. What I'm trying to say is there's no sense in dwelling on the lost. If ... (read in full...)

Should I put up with her denial ?

Q.   My g/f And i have gone out or 7 months. She has Now told me that she loves another guy and Always has throughout our relationship. I had asked her before but she said she didnt, which is lying. The boy dislikes me and is trying to get my g/f to b...

A.   21 June 2009: I don't know you, but you seem very sincere and I would say you're better than this.. All she's doing is disrespecting you. She's lying to you, has been lying to you and who knows what else. I personally, would sit my partner down with an ultimatum. ... (read in full...)

I feel alone and I think about her all the time!

Q.   I have felt alone a lot lately. I was at a friends house and they told me they had seen an ex-gf of mine and said she was asking about me. I was the one who broke it off with her and it didn't end the best. In the past few weeks I haven't been able ...

A.   21 June 2009: So go to her! You don't have to be lovers to share a friendship. There's a million more people you may not be meant for, but that doesn't mean at all that you cannot be friends with them. Guaranteed, if you just sit around wondering, you're only ... (read in full...)

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