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I feel confused because my ex is acting all nice towards me.

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Question - (25 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2008)
A female New Zealand age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Before i went out with my now ex boyfriend we had a very good friendship for about a year. We started dating but it didnt work out. So after a very nasty break up he has chosen to ignore me. Only recently has he started talking to me but flirts outrageously with me when hes drunk. I feel so confused because now he is acting so nice to me. Does he want to start a friendship?? i dont want to go back to where we were but everytime he talks to me i like him more and more but i dont want to get my heart trampled on again.

Anyways to make sure i dont get heartbroken??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

well don't go back to him by the sound he only wants you for "sex" so just say f____ you and leave

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you

i now see things from a differnt perspective

u posibly just saved me from heartbreak!

THANK YOU!

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (26 December 2007):

birdynumnums agony auntI'm assuming that your heart was broken the first time from what you have written.

If that is in fact the case, I really wouldn't be so quick to hand it back to him. If it didn't work out before, have any circumstances changed drastically for either of you that caused the problems that split the two of you up? Or is it just wishful thinking that this time it will work? I'm not sure that even if you walked in with your eyes WIDE open, that the heartbreak wouldn't happen all over again. I think I'd walk away from him when he is drunk and take a chance on someone sober who flirts with you instead.

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