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I've just had sex with my TEACHER!

Q.   I've had sex with my teacher last week and I don't know what to do. I can't look him in the eyes any more, I feel ashamed and bad. Can somebody give me an advice what to do?...

A.   5 June 2009: I don't know the age of cosent in France. You need to tell someone if you were forced into having sex with your teacher. It also might best you take a pregnancy test just in case you have become pregnant with your teacher child. Remember to talk to ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend had sex with my mother!

Q.   I came home from work the other day early and found my boyfriend who is 39, having sex with my mother, aged 69, on my bed. My parents live with me, as does my boyfriend who moved in last year. He does drink a lot as he is having problems with post ...

A.   5 June 2009: If you havn't done so already end your relationship with this guy. If he has had sex with your mother who will be next for him to cheat on you with your sister if you have 1. Also tell your mother to leave your futher boyfriends alone. Perhaps he ... (read in full...)

Scared to death..to tell my Mom, I am pregnant!

Q.   I turn 16 last month and five months ago, I was raped by a masked man. I was a virgin before it happened and then three months ago, I found out I'm pregnant. Nobody knows anything except for my best friend (he's a guy) and he tells me that if I ...

A.   3 June 2009: You need to tell your mother what has happened to you. Then you should both go to the police. If you can remember what you were wearing that night put the clothes in bag & take them with you. So that the police can try to find some d.n.a of your ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and scared to lose my virginity

Q.   I need some help, i'm 13 nd im scared ov losin my virginity. ...

A.   3 June 2009: Don't let your friends tell you that your going a lonely old lady before you lose your virginity. Tell them that your waiting until you meet someone specail or until you get married. Don't pressured by them it's up to you when you want to lose your ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my wife that I had sex with my sister in law? She wouldn't handle it well! What do I do??

Q.   I have had feelings for my sister in law for five years and last week we had sex. Im very confused. We both agreed that it was a once off and it would never happen again. We are both married and very happy in our relationship but have been flirting ...

A.   23 May 2009: Unless you want a divorce don't tell your wife about having sex with sister in law. You have both agreed that it was a 1 off & are going move on.... (read in full...)

I used my best friend's sister for sex and now she's pregnant! What do I do now?

Q.   I started messing around with my best friend's little sister, and now she is pregnant. I have been friends with the guy since elementary school and I have a girlfriend who is always in college. I LOVE my g/f and planned on asking her to marry me...

A.   18 May 2009: Why don't you stand by this young lady after all she is having your baby. You should talk to her parents about has happened they might respect for admitting what you have done & that you will stand by her & support the baby. Maybe either her parents ... (read in full...)

Is it incest if you were related through great grandparents?

Q.   After being in a relationship for about 2 and a half years, it fizzled out, but that wasn't to mean that the break-up wasn't messy, and a lot of heartache caused. That was 4 months ago, and i haven't even been interested in getting involved with ...

A.   16 May 2009: Incest is when you are both members of the same family who have sex. You 2 are related in any way shae or form so why not enjoy a happy relationship with young lady.... (read in full...)

How do I bring up my rape fantasy with him?

Q.   How do I bring up my rape fantasy? I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, I trust him and love him but i'm a little scared about how to tell him i have a rape fantasy. He's told me his other fantasies and we do some pretty outrageous sexual a...

A.   15 May 2009: The next time you are both together. Suggeset that you have an evening where you can both act out some of your fantasies together. If it goes well make arragements to do it again with any other fantasies you both have.... (read in full...)

Hots for my sister in law!

Q.   My wife and I see quite a lot of her married sister who likes to talk dirty in our presence. She asks her sister about intimate details of our sex lives. She was a naughty girl when she was single, I'm told, who encouraged her sibling to have ...

A.   14 May 2009: If you haven't done so already why don't the 3 of you talk about having a threesome. That way you get the fantasy of having sex with your sister in law out of your system. If you still feel like you want 1 on 1 sex with her. you should both arrange ... (read in full...)

I want my wife's sister...

Q.   for weeks now my wife sister my sister inlaw has been giving me mixed signals ,you know a little touch hear and a long stair there, my sister inlaw other half went away on a business trip and me and my wife stayed over for the night so my wife could ...

A.   12 May 2009: I am sorry that you & you girlfriend/wife have ended your relationship. Maybe it for the best if you were still having feelings for sister. You obviously care for them both by not wanting to hurt them. I hope you find someone soon hopefully who ... (read in full...)

14 pregnant don't want to tell my mum!

Q.   Ok so i'm 14, and i just found out im pregnant. No body knows yet i definatly don't want to get rid of it but i know my mum she will try and make me if i tell her! And i can't tell my boy friend because i don't know how he will react i'm not sayin ...

A.   11 May 2009: You need to tell your mother that your pregnant. Because the longer you leave it the more obvious it will become with lump in in tummy sticking out. You also need to tell your boyfriend because he will need to give youthe support you need when you ... (read in full...)

They've been raising my baby as my sister! What can I do to claim her back?

Q.   i really need some help and advice but dnt no were to go or wat to do! wen i was 12 i was raped and i ended up gettin pregnant! when i was 6 weeks pregnant my mum, dad and me moved away for a bit until everything settled, i was close to my mum and ...

A.   8 May 2009: You should go to a solicitor & ask for legal aid. Explain what as happend to you & that you want take your back from your parents who have raised it as their own child & not to help you. Because you only a child & needed to continue with your ... (read in full...)

My husband is having an affair with MY MOTHER!!!

Q.   I found out earlier this week off a good friend (female) of mine that my husband was having an affair with my mother. She said that she'd seen my husband passionately kissing my mother outside a well-known pub and whispering into her ear how sexy ...

A.   6 May 2009: If you haven't done already talk to your solicter about either a tral separation or a divorce. He has been unfaithfull to you with your mother. Who will it be next your sister (if you have any) or your girlfriends. Alcohol is no excuse for him ... (read in full...)

Mum had an affair, and possibly still is.

Q.   About 5 months ago my mum had an affair with my dads friend. My dad was furious when he found out and extremely upset, my mum sounded like she wanted to leave him completely for the other guy. I found all this out gradually while overhearing their ...

A.   6 May 2009: Perhaps you should talk to your mother about your concerns. Find out how she feels about your father does she still love him? if not are they going to separate or get a divorce? Tell her that you would like to know & not to treat you like a baby. ... (read in full...)

I used my best friend's sister for sex and now she's pregnant! What do I do now?

Q.   I started messing around with my best friend's little sister, and now she is pregnant. I have been friends with the guy since elementary school and I have a girlfriend who is always in college. I LOVE my g/f and planned on asking her to marry me...

A.   6 May 2009: I am not sure what the of consent is in Canada. But you shouldn't have taken advanage of this young lady. It is best that you come clean & admit that you are the father of the baby his sister having. If he wants to give a good hiding that is up to ... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with my friend’s mum

Q.   I want to have sex with my friend’s mum. we are both single. I have a thing for my friend’s mum since I was in high school. She is in her 40s and I am 22. I know friend’s mum thinks I am cute as she has said so and has kissed/made out with me at ...

A.   6 May 2009: you tell your friend that you fancy his mum. Hopefully he will understand & let you see her. Then tell his mum how you feel about her. Just remember that still of child bearing age so use a condom to reduce the risk of you getting her pregnant.... (read in full...)

Why does he want a lap dance on his stag night?

Q.   My fiance and I get on really well, we have both been married before but at last are happy, we hardly never argue and everyone says that we are made for each other. I am unusually laid back about most things BUT we are getting married this year and ...

A.   5 May 2009: Maybe his friends are winding you up about taking your fiance to lap dancing & strip clubs on his stag night. Just to see how you react about the situation. Tell him that you would prefer that he didn't go. Also talk to his friends who are arranging ... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with my sister in law!

Q.   i want to have sex with my sister in law. i don't love her but i know the sex would be unbelievable. she is three years older than me and has always shown interest in me. my head tells me know but i have the urge to just openly tell her what i want ...

A.   5 May 2009: If haven't done so already it might be best that you get this fantasy out of your system. Talk to sister in law about this you never know she consent. Go somewhere quiet & your not known. Remember to use a condom as your sister in law is of child ... (read in full...)

Feelings for my step-nephew!

Q.   well this a real good one and its driving me crazy, my brother has two stepsons from a previous marriage and we had post ouch for near hand 20 years, my oldest step nephew and i began talking a lot and realised we had so much in common, there was a ...

A.   4 May 2009: Remember your your step-nephew is not a blood relation. If he's over the age of 18 then have a talk with over a drink and tell him about your feelings for him. If he feels the same about you make sure you or he has got some condoms because you are ... (read in full...)

My mates mom is pregnant...with my child!

Q.   Im currently seeing my mates mum. Im 17 and so is my mate, his mum is 32. but last night she told me that she was pregnant with my kid and she wants to keep it. even more she is planning to tell my mate about us. what should I do? Should I tel...

A.   3 May 2009: Hopefully you and your friends mum have spoken to him about the pregnancy and your still friends. You should have used a condom as she is still of child bearing age and then you wouldn't be in this postion in the 1st place. Just try and be a good ... (read in full...)

I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???

Q.   Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...

A.   3 May 2009: You should tell your cousin why you would to have sex with her. If it's a fantasy she might make it come true. If says no then move on and find a grilfriend of your own. If this fantasy having sex with a female member of your continues ask either ... (read in full...)

I want to watch my girlfriend have sex with my male friend

Q.   Should I let my best mate sleep with my girlfriend while I watch? Hello everybody, My name is Jonathan. My girlfriend and I have been 8 years together and we're both 28 years old. For the past year or so I've been having this vivid fant...

A.   3 May 2009: Are you really sure that you want to see your friend have sex whilst you watch them. If so just remember 1 thing thi could end your relationship with your girlfriend or they could go on to have an affair. ... (read in full...)

I want my wife's sister...

Q.   for weeks now my wife sister my sister inlaw has been giving me mixed signals ,you know a little touch hear and a long stair there, my sister inlaw other half went away on a business trip and me and my wife stayed over for the night so my wife could ...

A.   3 May 2009: You need to get this thing with your sister in law out of your system. The way to do that is by getting her to agree to go a hotel with 1 night and have a night of sex with her. Remember to use a condom if she of child bearing age. You shouldn't ... (read in full...)

In love with my brother-in-law -- should I tell him?

Q.   I think I am in love with my brother in law, I can't wait to see him, talk to him, dream about sex and relationships with him, but I don't think he feels same way about me although we do get on very well. I just don't know what to do, or to mention ...

A.   3 May 2009: You should tell your brother in law about how you feel about him. Yu never know he might secertly feel the same way about you. If he does you need to talk about what he intends to do about his marriage. Because you are both going hurt your sister if ... (read in full...)

I had sex with my wife's sister and now she's driving me crazy! What do I do about such a weird situation?

Q.   About 2 years ago I had the best sex ever with my wifes sister. I have always wanted her and in fact, when i met my wife my intention was to hook up with the sister but it didn't happen. Anyway we ended up in bed together just having the best sex ...

A.   3 May 2009: If you and your wife no longer love each other it might be best to end your marriage and move in with your sister in law if she will have you. Once the divorce is fianl ask your sister in law to marry you after you wanted to hook up with her and not ... (read in full...)

I saw my 44 yearold mother having sex - surely she is too old?

Q.   I am 24. My mom is 44 she had a divorce after long married life of 28years.She was shattered and had lived a lonely life all alone for a year in her small parental town. When I got setelled with good job in a bigger town she came to live with me in ...

A.   3 May 2009: Your mother's love life is nothing to do with you. If your mother wants have sex then let have it when & where she wants it. Remember your never to old for sex. Find yourself someone & you will soon see how natural sex is at any age. ... (read in full...)

My stepdad would rather have sex with me than with my mum!

Q.   Dear cupid I'm an 18 yr old girl and my problem is that my stepdad raped me a week ago, so my mom kicked me out. I enjoyed having sex with him and he has come to me twice( I'm living in my friend's apartment) and we've had an amazing time but it's...

A.   2 May 2009: You say he raped you & your home & then you say that you need him because you enjoyed having sex with him. I am thinking that you conseted to sex with him. If you 2 want to have sex & be together then perhaps you should both a place of your own to ... (read in full...)

I nearly had sex with my Mum's 37 year old friend

Q.   I'm 16, and I fancy my Mum's 37 year old friend. I have since I first met her, but I knew nothing would ever happen between us. But the other night, she was at my house with my Mum, and they had a few drinks. My Mum went to sleep on the couch, I ...

A.   2 May 2009: If you really would like to have sex with your mum's friend. I suggeest that you buy some condoms. Then call her & tell her that you have been thinking about her & would to meet her either at your place or hers. If you are alone with make a pass at ... (read in full...)

Am I being lead on?

Q.   There's this girl I've really liked for a long time, and I'm pretty sure she likes me. However, she does this weird thing where she gets all flirtatious when I don't show that much interest in her, but when I try to show interest, she becomes a lot ...

A.   2 May 2009: There is only 1 way to find out if your being lead on. Ask out for a coffee & tell that you quite like her. If she doesn't feel the same about you doesn't mean that she has been leading you on. Try to be friends with her after your meeting who knows ... (read in full...)

My ex-boyfriend is moving on too quickly and there's a possibility I'm pregnant!

Q.   My boyfriend and I recently broke up. It was a mutual decision to separate- we both just fell out of love with each other. Then last night, my best friend told me that he has been trying to make a move on her at school. I know we both agreed to b...

A.   2 May 2009: My advice is that you take a pregnancy test & if it's positive tell your ex-boyfirend that your pregnant with his child. Don't worry if your friend says that your saying becuase your jealous of their new found love. a child needs a father as well as ... (read in full...)

Not sure what to expect

Q.   Its been one week since my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex. I cant take a test now because of it being too early. I'd like to know what symptoms could start happening in the first week or two, if any, for pregnancy. Every woman is differen...

A.   2 May 2009: You're under age for sex so your boyfriend has broken the law. I advise to tell your parents. Also go to to police and report it. Then get your pregnancy terminated. ... (read in full...)

My mum is sleeping with my boyfriend

Q.   I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 8 months. We get on great and have an amazing sex life. When we have sex we always film it. It's just a bit of a kinky thing we do. My Mum, who's in her mid-forties, is always saying how good looking my boyfr...

A.   1 May 2009: You are right to dump your boyfriend as he unfaithful with & has had sex with mother. When you do confront your mother ask her how she & your ex-boyfriend have been having sex.Tell her to find a man of her own who is nearer her age & to leave your ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant with my brother and need to tell my family.

Q.   My brother is really cute and I have been havng sex with him. One time, we had too much to drink and we kinda forgot the condom. Now I am pregnant and my brother and family don't know. I am really scared and don't know how I'm gonna tell my family I ...

A.   30 April 2009: Being drunk is no excuse for fogetting to a condom even if have regular sex with your brother. You should tell that your pregnant with his child if he feels the same way about you has you do for him. Told tell your family yet but both should leave ... (read in full...)

We are having a baby through incest - what can I do?

Q.   To everyone that doesnt understand, this will seem really wrong but i've been in love with my brother (no not step, my actual brother) for the past 2 years after he helped me get over my cheating ex. At the start i thought it was just an admiration ...

A.   30 April 2009: You have to tell your brother that your pregnant with his baby. If he loves you like you love him and accepts the fact your pregnant. You should probably move to somewhere your not known and live as normal couple. Then tell your parents what as ... (read in full...)

I fantasize about having sex with my mother

Q.   I have asked this question before but am still curious as what to do. I am now 17, my mum is 43. 6 years ago, i was living with my mum, i was in the need of the drink, so went into the kitchen to get one, only my mum was in the way on the worktop ...

A.   29 April 2009: Hi You can fantasize about having sex with your mother. Really you should find yourself a girlfriend. If you still have the fantasy to have sex with your mother just make a pass her & tell that is a fantasy that you have you never she make it come... (read in full...)

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