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writes:Im 13 and i have a huge crush on a girl and shes not the only one ive liked i think i might be falling in love with her but im not sure ive liked plenty of guys but because of this crush i think im gay but how do i know for sure? she already knows i like her but.......... IM CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Hatti  +, writes (22 April 2008):
I'm fourteen but it looks like we are in the same boat! I'm sure it could be hormones, or (as everyone keeps saying) just a 'phase'. At this stage, we can't really decide exactly what orietation we are untill we've experienced what real love is like. Even if you are (or will be) gay it won't matter, as long as you find someone who really understands you and really cares for you. At this moment in time though, it seems from your question you might be bisexual. Don't worry, it's perfectly normal, and anyway, being a teenager is what this stuff is all about!
P.s why don't you pluck up the courage to talk to this girl in private about your feelings (?), clear things up a bit in your head, and if she refuses to talk to you well...she is obviously not worth thinking about!
I hope I've helped a little, but you can always mail me if you need any more advice!
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reader, Nibblet +, writes (22 April 2008):
 what your going through might be a phase thing but you never know it might not be. ask yourself this question do you see yourself with a girl or a guy. i know your only 13 but ask yourself questions like that it will help short thing out in your head.
Good Luck!!! message if you want to talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): It could well just be a phase, but then again it may not be. Obviously you would be confused if you don't know how you r feeling for someone, but i'm sure that the confusion will pass! Whatever you do don't worry about what people think, they need to accept you for who you are and if they don't then why bother associating yourself with them? Good luck! Feel free to private message me! xx Hope xx
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reader, AgonyAuntAnnie +, writes (22 April 2008):
 This is normal. There are a lot of people who like both boys and girls. This could just be a phase you are going through. But don't worry. If people do not respect your for this they are not true friends and you should not waste your life with them. If you do like both boys and girls and this is not just a phase then this is called bisexual. I have a lot of friends who are bisexual and they are not considered weird. They get on with their lives. One boy is now currently dating another boy and they are very happy together this boy is also only 13 years old. Don't worry about your sexuality it is very normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): My answer to you is this website of useful information:
www.outproud.org
It helped me when I was first trying to figure out my sexual orientation. I didn't even know I was bisexual until I did the research.
Anyways, good luck on your journey in life!
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reader, sexi  +, writes (22 April 2008):
 Hi
It is just a phase that you are going throught which will pass. Just hang in there. At your ags is likely that you would be confused that you would be confused about you identity so dont worry it is normal.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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