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I don't want him to just "use me" as he has done this before in past relationships.

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Question - (15 May 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *xhanzxx writes:

I really like this guy, i used 2 go out with him but we broke up because he didnt treat me very well, and if i go out with him my friends will go against me because they all hate him and think i do as well. i think he likes me a little bit more than a friend but i still dont no weather he will use me or not. he has done to girls before. but i just cant get over him. please help me. i dont no what to do. x

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A female reader, xSarax United Kingdom +, writes (16 May 2007):

xSarax agony aunti know its hard and im going through it now but take a look deep down in your heart and ask yourself- does he really deserve me? and if the answer is no then get shot because there is someone out there a lot better for you.

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (16 May 2007):

Frank B Kermit agony auntYou already know he is going to use you. Do you only want him becuase everyone says you shouldn't have him? It does not matter if he likes you. What matters is how he treats you. You should only go out with him if you want to end up feeling used like his other conquests.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (16 May 2007):

cd206 agony auntFriends will last infinitely longer than boyfriends, especially at your age. There doesn't seem to be any reasons in favour of going out with him except your attraction to him. I'm sure if you give yourself a chance you will be attracted to other guys who your friends will like and who will treat you well too. You don't need to waste your time going back to your rejects hoping theyve changed.

CD

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