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26-29,
*levatorgirl
writes:The other day i was walking in the hall and my crush was there and i think he touched my waist but im not sure if it was an accident or not. He was walking the other way and i think he saw me but he kept walking toward me and his friend was kinda pulling him away but when i walked past him our sleeves brushed and i felt something rub against my waist kinda hard and i think it was his hand. but there has been other little things too, like one day he coughed and when i looked at him he started smiling and sometimes i think hes looking at him but when i look at him he looks down.But somedays he hardly looks at me. So what do you think? Why are guys so confusing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): Men & Women spend their entire lives trying to figure each other out, lol. Don't waste too much energy trying. Just simply be nice to him if you like him. Start a conversation, be friends and see where it goes or not. I suggest you focus 99% of your energy on YOU!! Not boys. It's a waste of your valuable time. Be selfish.
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reader, spnwinchester  +, writes (23 January 2011):
Good lord you are going to have some hard times ahead of you if you're having this much trouble deducing something so pointless.
Him brushing up against you was probably an accident, and he smiled maybe cause he likes you, but it seems like you haven't even spoken to him yet so I doubt it.
People look at people all the time, like ALL of the time, for different reasons.
Try figuring this one out on your own.
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reader, oneguy +, writes (23 January 2011):
 I'm a guy. If I were 15 and I loved a girl I would be scared to even look straight into her eyes. It would be way too much for the heart to handle.I'm not sure if he intentionally touched your waist. If he did, it wouldn't create a good impression in my mind about the guy.True love at that age is really rare. But since you have a crush on him, you could probably go talk to him casually sometime, probably alongwith a trusted friend of yours, and see how he behaves/reacts. That should give you a good idea.
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reader, The_truth_hurts_OK +, writes (23 January 2011):
I think you are reading too much into his actions because you WANT him to like you. A guy is not going to rub your waist on purpose while walking down the hall - most guys are as nervous as we are about first contact! I'm sure it was an accident. You know what would make him feel really good? Go up and ask him! If he likes you he will be totally flattered, if not, he will still be flattered too, and, you will know how he really feels!
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