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My boss wants to meet up with me on the weekend!

Q.   My Boss has asked if he can join me on a night out!He asked what I was upto at the weekend, I told him I was going to watch a local band play at my local and he said "i'd like to join you sometime for a drink", he then said "sorry there's me ...

A.   23 January 2011: It's obviously not work related. He likes you, and if you don't like him, you had better stop this now or it could end up very bad.... (read in full...)

I don't understand why guys are so confusing!

Q.   The other day i was walking in the hall and my crush was there and i think he touched my waist but im not sure if it was an accident or not. He was walking the other way and i think he saw me but he kept walking toward me and his friend was kinda ...

A.   23 January 2011: I think you are reading too much into his actions because you WANT him to like you. A guy is not going to rub your waist on purpose while walking down the hall - most guys are as nervous as we are about first contact! I'm sure it was an accident. ... (read in full...)

I just want my fiance back!

Q.   I have cheated on my fiance several times,he had an idea, but as nothing was admitted or had been confirmed was thinking he just may have got it wrong. Well thats how it seemed. Last week he walked in and showed me a text he`d been sent with the ...

A.   23 January 2011: If, as you say you, "love him more than the air that [you] breath," then you wouldn't have cheated on him. If you care at all about him, you will tell him the truth. Guys aren't stupid mindless sex machines - they are people like us. If you are ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't treat me the same anymore.

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't treat me the same anymore. What can I do? he used to text me all the time, but I'm lucky if i get one without asking a question what I need the answer to.. and most of the time one worded. He never makes the effort to come s...

A.   23 January 2011: The truth is that guys are really excited about a conquest - if they think they already have you then thy are just not that excited - it's all about the hunt. Be coy and elusive and you just might make him excited again, otherwise say goodbye ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is in a band that has two attractive girls. How can I stop feeling insecure?

Q.   I have a boyfriend of 4 months. I am 15 going on 16. I absolutely love him to bits, he is everything to me and I never, ever, ever want to lose him! Everything has been going perfectly, he treats me like his only girl and we spend as much time as ...

A.   23 January 2011: Face it, if the girls are hot and in a band, he'll probably hook up with one of them - that's just the way it is. People who are in a band are just cooler and more desirable than those who are not. Either join a band, or quit while your ahead. ... (read in full...)

I've been asked to participate in a threesome but have conflicting feelings about it

Q.   Been asked to partisipate in a three some but have very pro/con views on it plus I like the guy and dont know who the other person is. Am worried that I'll chicken out, it wont be as good as expected and am very nervus about this. Should I do it...

A.   23 January 2011: I was nervous before my first threesome, but it totally rocked! All guys want to have three-ways - it's in their nature - so don't be offended. If you don't like the other person in the mix, you can always say no, right? Just go for it and have fun!... (read in full...)

Are my girlfriend's sexual issues common in women? Is there something I can do to make the experience more enjoyable for her?

Q.   My girlfriend and I are sexually active. After having sex for a bit, she will ask me if I am about done. After she asks me this question, I just stop, or other times she will say it's hurting her. We use a lot of lube. Is this normal for women? Is ...

A.   23 January 2011: It sounds like you're just not doing it for her. Believe me - if she was into it, it wouldn't matter if it hurt - in fact it might turn her on more. When I was younger (and less considerate) if I wasn't getting anything out of the sex I would say ... (read in full...)

My wife contributes very little to our relationship

Q.   My wife and I have been married for two years and I'm worried about our future because she contributes very little to our relationship. I bring in 100% of the money (I'm putting her through college), but in return she doesn't clean, cook, take ...

A.   23 January 2011: I was in the same situation, but reversed. Ive had been raised that women don't need to stoop to doing domestic work - that men try to make us slaves. I felt that doing house-work would make me less equal to a man. But I realized that my husband was ... (read in full...)

My wife contributes very little to our relationship

Q.   My wife and I have been married for two years and I'm worried about our future because she contributes very little to our relationship. I bring in 100% of the money (I'm putting her through college), but in return she doesn't clean, cook, take ...

A.   23 January 2011: I was in the same situation, but reversed. Ive had been raised that women don't need to stoop to doing domestic work - that men try to make us slaves. I felt that doing house-work would make me less equal to a man. But I realized that my husband was ... (read in full...)

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