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My dominating boyfriend who thinks he's "Gods Gift" is making my life miserable...

Q.   hey, so im about to turn 17 and my boyfriend is about to be 21. we have been together for a couple months and things are getting very complicated. im becoming scared of him. he keeps pressuring me about falling in love... he always says "i dont thi...

A.   4 March 2011: If somebody else had wrote exactly what you just wrote on here, you would probably think they would need to get away from that guy Honestly where do you think this is going? Just dump him, it may hurt a little at the start but in the long run you'... (read in full...)

My trust issues are gettting in the way of our relationship

Q.   hi everyone i realli need some advice on my relationship with my boyfriend. Im 23year old girl. Recently i have been very jelous and my feelings have been all over the place i have constantly been accusing him of cheating on me with a girl at his ...

A.   8 February 2011: K You sound like you're in dire need of help cause if I were your boyfriend, I would definitely left you quite a while ago. Seriously the way you're acting towards your boyfriend and that girl is COMPLETELY out of line and crazy, you need to get rid ... (read in full...)

How to make my ex jealous?

Q.   i want to make my ex as jealous as possible. he really broke my heart. we ended it "mutually" but it was more him wanting to end it than me. i want to make him regret breaking up with me. we dated for a year, and we're both 15. he was the first guy ...

A.   26 January 2011: It seems like your ex doesn't want a relationship with you and has moved on, pretty quickly. So I doubt you really could make him jealous anyway. Making somebody jealous is not a healthy way to get them back so I suggest you try moving on as we... (read in full...)

If a guy was truly mind blowing in bed, would you try get him into bed with you just for one night?

Q.   If you heard about a guy who was spectacular in bed, like he was TRULY amazing and could give you multiple intense orgasms, was great at cuddling and foreplay, would this make you flirt with him and try get him into bed with you? I mean, why no...

A.   25 January 2011: Thanks for the answers, they've all been great so thank you for putting in the time to answer. First, yes I'm a guy, and no I'm not looking to have sex with him myself haha. Just looking for a girls point of view towards this guys situatio... (read in full...)

Which guy should I like? Or should I find a guy outside my group of friends?

Q.   I recently moved to a new town and made some new friends. I mostly hang with the boys since I become easily jealous and I'm very conceited. It makes me feel better about myself being surrounded by a group of guys. Along the way, I made some ...

A.   23 January 2011: Why are you ashamed to be with O. Is it because he is best friends D who you seem to like, or is it another reason?... (read in full...)

He is my best friend and my worst nightmare!

Q.   Ive been dating a guy for almost three years and I still feel hot for him one week and cold for him the next. He makes me feel loved and needed and we can be the best of friends like it comes naturally. Then he will show his irritated and angry ...

A.   23 January 2011: Leave him, this clearly won't be able to go anywhere... (read in full...)

I don't understand why guys are so confusing!

Q.   The other day i was walking in the hall and my crush was there and i think he touched my waist but im not sure if it was an accident or not. He was walking the other way and i think he saw me but he kept walking toward me and his friend was kinda ...

A.   23 January 2011: Good lord you are going to have some hard times ahead of you if you're having this much trouble deducing something so pointless. Him brushing up against you was probably an accident, and he smiled maybe cause he likes you, but it seems like you... (read in full...)

Boyfriend found out about the one night stands!

Q.   Please dont make me feel worse than I already do. I know it serves me right,karma,thats what you get and so on. So,to keep it brief,my bf of 4 years found out about a 1 night stand,not the first time,but the first he knows about,he may well start ...

A.   23 January 2011: Well done.......just TRY putting yourself in his shoes, imaging if HE had done 100% exactly what you have done, what you forgive him? Ever?... (read in full...)

My girlfriend of 18 months tied me up in my sleep -- I was petrified. What do I do moving forward?

Q.   My girlfriend of 18 months tied me up in my sleep as a "birthday gift." It was 7 days ago now, and I woke up with my arms and legs handcuffed to the bed posts; I had also been stripped, gagged and blindfolded. I had no idea where I was, my heart ...

A.   23 January 2011: Jesus christ, I honestly think the very vest possible thing to do is to make her read what you just wrote, because she NEEDS to know what she actually did to you. Could you imagine if YOU did that to HER!? She literally raped you, be a man and tak... (read in full...)

How can a guy change his mind on a daily basis?

Q.   How in the world do I understand this man? I have been fooling around with a younger man for almost a year now. He told me recently that he doesn't want an emotional relationship with me. That made me laugh out loud! This guy is sensitive, em...

A.   19 January 2011: Well maybe he just enjoys being sweet, kind and sensitive to you whilst having sex, but just doesn't want to be tied down with anybody.... (read in full...)

I still love my first!

Q.   I broke up with my ex about who i went out with for a year and its been about 6 months. Im still not over her i still think about her every day she took my virginity as i did hers. It was primarly her fault she wouldn't stop texting other guys and ...

A.   7 January 2011: So she was texting other guys and then lying about texting them...seems a little suspicious. And you strongly think she cheated on you? You probably should of looked into this a little bit more before you ended it. She may have just been texting ... (read in full...)

He thinks it's a minor detail he left out, I happen to think it's a major one!

Q.   My boyfriend and I had made plans for today, but he said he needed a few hours alone so that he could finish working on his jeep. Later I went over and we met some friends for dinner, and one of the girls mentioned that she was over helping him on ...

A.   7 January 2011: UUhhh....Really? So a friend of his helped him work on his car. Is that it? You really have trust issues that need to be dealt with because that really is just a very minor detail that he didn't have to tell you. If you think that is a major detail ... (read in full...)

He broke up with me for another girl but he stares at me whenever he sees me

Q.   My x and i never seemed to have any problems but as soon as i had sex with him, he dumped me for some lame excuse saying "I dont want attachments in the marines" you see he is a sr. and i am a sophomore. He was crying over the phone when he broke up ...

A.   7 January 2011: K, guys stare at girls all the time, whether they hate them, like them, love them, find them ugly, find them attractive ect. So him simply glancing at you is clearly because you have a lot of history together. He has moved on, he probably WAS list... (read in full...)

How long have you waited for a lover to come back?

Q.   I was recently dumped after a 3 month relationship and I was wondering how long some of you guys have waited for a lover to come back? Months, years? ...

A.   5 January 2011: They won't just come back to you if you sit around doing nothing but waiting for them. If you won't them to come back, you have to do something first. You can't just wait, because nothing will ever happen.... (read in full...)

How to stop yourself turning into a mother- or sister- or friend-type of girlfriend,

Q.   Hey guys, I'd love some advice on how you stop yourself turning into a mother- or sister- or friend-type of girlfriend, if that makes sense? I've been with my bf for 4 months, think he's gorgeous, kind, caring, funny, intelligent, sexy. He's the ...

A.   5 January 2011: Hmm spend a little less time with him, make him want to see you more often and miss you desperately.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend punched my friend and said I can't see him any more

Q.   Today I was hanging out with my best friend(a guy) at a park and we were just talking and having a great time just hanging out. Well then my boyfriend came and got really mad that I was hanging out with my friend. My boyfriend was super mad and he p...

A.   5 January 2011: Yeah hes clearly deranged in some way, leave him, seriously im sure you wouldn't punch one of his female friends if he was just talking to her. And he set your car on fire. Id take him to court for that or at least make him pay for it, then you... (read in full...)

I am gay and want to kiss my best female friend!

Q.   Greetings, I am a 20 years old virgin guy. All my life I considered myself Gay because I was only attracted to boys and not girls! Recently I find myself in need to kiss my best friend, who is a Woman!!!! I do not know why I want that so badl...

A.   4 January 2011: Get drunk with her, and then fool around with her and then you will have an excuse for kissing her. Its what I would do ... (read in full...)

I don't think my boyfriend wants to have sex anymore!

Q.   I have a question that is a little difficult to ask because I don't really know how to. My boyfriend and I have been having sex problems lately. Awhile back he told me he didn't want to have sex every night. He used to say he wanted to and could and ...

A.   4 January 2011: TBH I think he MIGHT be cheating on you, or just masturbating by himself more often. But, I wouldn't try push him he may just find it harder as hes getting older. Perhaps he could just go down on you instead each night???... (read in full...)

She wont stop being friends with him

Q.   So theres this guy I was in love with for like 3 years we were never together but now we kind of went our seperate ways and i have a bf now. The problem is is im still not exactly over him and i still thinkg about him a lotttt. well, my best friend ...

A.   4 January 2011: It seems a tiny bit selfish of you to want her to stop being friends with him. I mean HE doesn't seem to like you that way at all, and you have a boyfriend, and what happens between those two is between them, so just try to get over him and their ... (read in full...)

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