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writes:Hey. I'd like a bit of advice with what this guy's up to.He's at college with me, very quiet and shy and he's a friend of a friend. I know him in person but we're too shy to talk so we talk on msn. We do talk sometimes in person and mess about with each other. On msn, he starts a conversation with me whenever we're both online within a few mintues. This adds up to about 3 or 4 times a day and lasts hours put together. I talk to him on msn more than anyone else and I'm pretty sure the same applies to him. We're good friends on msn and we've learnt a lot about each other since this has been going on for months now. I sometimes feel like I annoy him on msn but he's the one that always talks to me. He's started to text me recently as well for no apparent reason and there is no point to his texts. He just makes me laugh.So why is he doing this? I don't know what's going on in his head but I'm pretty sure he's not stalking me!
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reader, ***__***  +, writes (18 April 2010):
I don't believe hes stalking you.He probably just likes you but isn't sure if you feel the same way.Talk to him on MSN again and see about going out to eat or something, go from there.But talking online to you and texting isn't really stalking.If he starts calling you non stop, following you around, always seems to need to know where you are, and way over the top stuff like that, then you should talk to him about it and if he keeps doing it, get help cause that is stalking.personal experience here on that type stuff.
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reader, JaddeDragon +, writes (18 April 2010):
It sounds like he may be into you. If he's starting the conversations with you and is generally shy he may be interested in you. ON the other hand he may just have very few friends and likes talking to you because you talk back. If he's someone you may be interested in then just ask him if he likes you, if he's not someone you see yourself dating then just keep it friendly and talk to him if you feel like it! If you don't like him though, don't lead him on either just in case he is into you. Try to find a subtle way to let him know you aren't in to him. You could do this by maybe talking about a boy you do like to him, he'll get the hint.
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