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*aron123
writes:Ok, me and my girlfriend have been doing well for the year and 5 months iwe have been dating. The problem is, we both have different sleeping patterns. She is more of a night owl and I am more of an early bird. Sometimes she gets annoyed at the fact that I go to sleep so early,so sometimes I try to stay up as late as she does when i talk to her on the fone, when we text,when we do late night stuff,etc. 9 times out of 10, I end up just passing out at around 12 or 1 o'clock without even knowing I do because I'm so tired. So,my question is,what do I do?
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reader, aaron123 +, writes (18 April 2010):
aaron123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt wasn't a major issue at first but now its getting a little serious. I try to talk to her late and adjust to her schedule but I'm a very busy person and its hard to
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 Being an early bird is healthier for you. Don't change your lifestyle to suit hers. Unless you are married with children and you have to make compromises, you are in the early stages of dating and you can still decide if you like this person enough to spend the rest of your life with. Being married with children means less sleep, less freedeom so when you are young you should enjoy your privileges as much as you can.
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reader, Just Diana  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 er....sleep! ....Your girlfriend sounds unrealistic....and what sounds even more unhealthy is that you entertain that unrealistic attitude. Reach a compromise. decide when it is you would feel comfortable going to sleep and put aside two hours before that time with your girlfriend. Ask her what would be realistic for her. COMMUNICATION
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