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How do I break it to friends and family that I'm back with an ex they hate?!

Q.   Hi I used to go out with this guy, who i really liked but he broke up with me a few weeks after me losing my virginity to him. I was angry at the time but got over it quite quickly!.....But my parents, family and close friends did not and still sp...

A.   25 August 2008: He wasnt the best of people while we were together, was with a bad crowd of people and did some drugs..only marijuana but that upset them. He's completly changed now but i dont think they'l believe or understand that...... (read in full...)

Does losing your virginity make you bleed??

Q.   I am 17 and i am close to losing my virginity. I just have one question though. The first time someone has sex (females) do they bleed? and does it hurt?...

A.   3 November 2007: When i lost mine i didnt...but some of my friends did. so i guess it depends on the person. And aslong as your relaxed and comfortable with the situation it shouldnt hurt. Hope this helps... (read in full...)

We havent gone past first base and my mates think i should dump her, how long do we wait before moving on from kissing?

Q.   Ive been going out with this girl for about 6 months now, we're roughly the same age and we still havent really got past the kissing and hugging stage. my freinds keep asking me "how far have you got" etc.. and when i tell them they tell me to dump ...

A.   26 August 2007: If you've been going out for 6 months then you should be able to discuss things with her...ie: How she feels about the relationship, happy with just 'kissing and hugging' ect. If you really like being with her as you said, you wouldnt dump her... (read in full...)

Any suggestions for removal of acne.

Q.   How do i get rid of my acne. I have blackheads, pimples, a lot of red markings and scars on my face. How do i get rid of it naturally? Are there any creams i could buy that won't break my budget, and won't make me breakout b/c i have very sensitive ...

A.   11 August 2007: Ignore what someones said about not eating tomatos, it has been proven that they help stop you getting burnt my the suns uv rays........advice for your skin problems, facial scrubs are good, and ice also helps take down the swelling of them. hope ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him that I like him. It would be incredibly awkward if he doesn't feel the same! What should I do?

Q.   Hey, im a member of a sports club that i go to every day, theres a guy who works in the shop there that i like so much, the only problem is im 16, hes 24+. I talk to him everyday and it sort of seems to me that theres playful flirty banter between ...

A.   10 May 2007: thankyou, im stuck on what kind of questions i can ask? any ideas? ... (read in full...)

I don't know whether to tell him how I'm feeling or not, because if he didnt feel the same way it would then make it really akward to see him every day.

Q.   Hey, im a member of a sports club that i go to every day, theres a guy who works in the shop there that i like so much, the only problem is im 16, hes 24+. I talk to him everyday and it sort of seems to me that theres playful flirty banter between ...

A.   4 May 2007: Thankyou for the two answers but i am living in the Uk, where you are legal from 16.... (read in full...)

He's 30 and I'm 16..how do I ask him out without me looking like a lovesick teen?

Q.   he is 30 and i am 17 how would i go about asking him out?? without making me seem like a lovesick teenager with a little crush (which it isnt btw)...

A.   29 April 2007: Hi im in a similar situation, theres a guy at a shop i have to go to everyday, im 16, he is 25. It feels starnge to make the first move, because of the age difference, try some light flirting, take an interest in what he does outside of college, ... (read in full...)

I only like much older men, guys my age just don't do it for me. Has anyone else felt this way?

Q.   Recently, I have realised that I only like much older men than me, I have dated guys my age but it just doesn't do it for me. I'm not talking a couple of years older either, I mean men in their 30s and 40s. Now I have never had a relationship with ...

A.   27 April 2007: Hi im 16 and feel the same, i have dated guys from 16-18 and have had enough, am now attracted to men who are 24+ and it makes it quite hard to try to have any kind of relationship with them because you feel they may not return it. x... (read in full...)

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