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30-35,
*oftballplaya
writes:hey everyoneOkay so I really like this guy and he goes to a different school. I added him on myspace and he accepted so I messaged him and he gave me his number. Eventhough its just the beginning its going really good. He dosent know me personally but he is best friends with my cousin so I juss went from there. We are almost 2 years apart me and the boy I like. I'm 14 hes 15 I'm pretty sure. okay the problem is I dont know what to talk about or how to make a good conversation with him when we text because I've never talked to him face to face. He is really nice I'm not shy thats not it at all I just don't know what I should say to him. Like some good topics...any suggestions?
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (18 July 2008):
softballplaya is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks so much everyone. you all helped me out alot (spirit_of_iona lol I'm not going to bring cupid.org up in a convo with him cuz I dont want to come off as obsessed lmao but your answer made me laugh) great advice everyone!
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reader, MG3150  +, writes (17 July 2008):
 Try talking to him about your interests, what you like to do in your spare time, ask him about what he likes to do, that's somewhere you can start, what you both do at school or something like that
Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): I get red around girls too, but only the girl I like .
Try using ichat/AIM at first, get to know him and what topics he likes (sports etc)
Then use like
How did your baseball game go?
or something like that I guess it should help
Sorry I am the most inexperienced guy ever
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reader, HannARGH! (: +, writes (17 July 2008):
 okay well you are only just beginning to get to know this guy & your both still finding stuff out about eachother and the interests you both have or share, i've been in the same sort of situation before and you just have to think to youself to talk to him like you'd talk to your best mate dont completely open up to him especially if you want to play hard to get (not that i'm suggesting that you do), find out what he likes to do in his spare time, stuff he is studying at school, plans for his future, just basically take an interest in what he does and ask alot of questions about himself & talk about similar stuff or situations you've been in to follow up his reply to your question because then he will have alot to say & probably ask you the same question which will keep the conversation going, just remember to keep an interest in him (:
Good luck.
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