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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi guysI just need some basic advice.I met a girl, we got along really well. i visited her city and we spent two days together, although we met just as friends the days were very romantic, it went perfectly and she said they were the best days of her life. She seemed very interested in getting to know me more, asking questions about me, my family, asking for photos etc. She took photos of us at any opportunity and I genuinely believe she had a really good time and the first thing she did after it was set a photo she took of herself during our day together as her profile photo on the app we use to message each other.So that was great and now i'm back in my city which is a number of hours away, we only talk with messages. Her english is not the best but she always seems very happy to talk. the problem is that she seems to go long periods of time without replying and without reading the message (it gives me a notification when it is read). She is quite busy, she studies and has lots of additional work to write, as well as seeing her friends etc. I don't want to seem like I am pestering her, but i'd like to arrange to see her again soon so want her to reply so i can arrange it with her. She uses her phone for other things like facebook so I know there is nothing wrong with it.Should i just wait for her to reply? or should i send her another message if she doesn't write for a while? She always seems happy to talk when I write, but i don't want to bother her. I don't know if she is not interested, seeing if i will chase her, too busy or just waiting for a good time to reply.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 May 2014):
 If you have not specifically asked to see her again I would ask to see her again with a message... or call her if you have her number... messaging is not a good way to have a relationship.
ask her once and then you have to have patience...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2014): Patience brother.
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reader, methuselah +, writes (22 May 2014):
Hi,
She seemed keen when you met. I would say, wait a couple of days and then suggest another meet up. Once you've sent this message, wait for her to get back in touch. I think that sounds reasonable.
Thanks.
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