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female
age
30-35,
*ssunshine2008
writes:There's this guy that I work with that I think likes me, we're supposed to be hanging out for the second time next week and I don't know if it's a date or just friends hanging out. He doesn't work in the same area as I do, so he'd be relatively easy to avoid if we tried dating and it didn't work out, also he is leaving this job within the next 6 months for a new one.He messaged me on Facebook randomly one day and just started talking to me about everything, after a few days he asked for my number. He asked to go out to eat a few times before I said yes, I never flat out said no, it was just an issue of not being free when he was free. In his question he said "so when am I going to be able to buy dinner for the girl that may or may not like me?" I thought it was funny, and I figured that meant he liked me but knew I was still unsure about him, but he never actually said "date". Well we went and then went driving around in his car and did some window shopping, that night he text me asking how the rest of my day was and if I wanted to hang out again next week. I said sure but I really don't know if it's a date or just a friends thing. He hasn't said anything really, he's a flirty person in general so I don't know if he's like this with everyone or if he specifically likes me. Help?!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 December 2012):
 I think it is pretty clear that he likes you, so the question is do you like him? If you don't then don't go out with him because he will feel like you are leading him on, but if you think that you could date him and grow to like him then go for it you have nothing to lose and as you said if it didn't work out it wouldn't be an issue at work, so accept that he likes you and see how it goes. Good luck.
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