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Esme's rules for a better, happier life in love

1. Be yourself, honestly, just be yourself.

2. Talk, talk, talk always to each other, even if it's just to tell him he's got a bat in the cave.

3. Sex, lots and lots of sex with each other! It feeds the soul, a much needed nutrient!!!

4. Respect each other.

Guaranteed to keep you guys together for a long time, or even just a month, which is long enough sometimes :)

How do I tell a girl, she's the one for me??

Q.   How do I tell a girl that she is the one for me? Anything? Thanks....

A.   14 February 2011: "you're the one for me" and throw in some hugs and long passionate kisses. :)... (read in full...)

Who is the victim here.. ... Me, my partner, or the wife I didn't know about?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. I dated him in high school, grew up around him, so I gave him more trust than I should have. I knew something wasn't right, red flags, but had no idea what it was. I did notice he wouldn't talk abo...

A.   14 February 2011: I think it's weird, that 2 years with this asshole, you had not formed a relationship with his kids. Big Red Flag. But anyway, be happy and grateful to All you consider holy, that you're out of that all kinds of crazy. he was a big part of your ... (read in full...)

Why is this guy having such an effect on me?

Q.   I really need some advice. I met this guy 6 weeks ago and he absolutely blew me away. It was like love at first sight. We exchanged numbers and went on dates and it was amazing. He was amazing. He was like the perfect guy for me. Until he told me he ...

A.   13 February 2011: Ok, first thing, call your friends, and spill the beans on how you're obsessing over this guy, hopefully they will encourage you and then you and your girls get all dressed up and go out! Have fun, meet other guys. Sometimes we meet an amazing ... (read in full...)

I don't know if he is just blowing me off!

Q.   So I have been seeing this guy for a month. Things were great. He's really nice always wanted to see me and spend time with me. So two nights ago I asked to hang out, he had already made plans but asked me to hang out the following night. Well the ...

A.   12 February 2011: Hmm. Just a month? Make your own plans, looks like he's busy, and not as interested as you are, or he could just need a breather, sometimes guys freak out and sorta *disappear* I don't know where they go. But if he comes back, don't make a big deal ... (read in full...)

Can I stay friends only with my married lover?

Q.   Hi.. I have been having an affair with a married man (co worker) for 2 years. I am married aswell. We are both in unhappy marriages and here for our children only. We have had many ups and downs in the 2 years. On Wednesday we went away for ...

A.   12 February 2011: So sad, and I'm sorry you feel that way about him. I was in a similar situation...but I was single, he was married (I didn't know, and when I found out, ended it) As co-workers, I encouraged him to try and fix things with his wife. We still work ... (read in full...)

I am ashamed of my living condition, and now my friend wants to come visit!

Q.   help ! i really need advice. im friends with a guy-just friends ! and recently hes been asking to come to my house. im ashamed of the condition its in-it needs a lot of decorating and some of the floors are bare ! also i havent been totally straight ...

A.   12 February 2011: You're in the process of renovating? No worries, relax, my sister's place is a friggin' nightmare, and yet she's always got a party with loads of friends, neighbors. As long as it's a happy home, it's a good home.... (read in full...)

Lonely on valentines day

Q.   i am 13-15 and ive been singled for a year and only had one boyfriend. im not the prettiest girl around but not that ugly either. valentines day is coming up and i need a boyfriend. how do i find the guy right for me. help. thanks...

A.   12 February 2011: Sorry babe, love has it's own schedule, time zone even :) buy yourself something pretty, something yummy! Hang out with your friends, or relax at home. It's just Monday!... (read in full...)

I am ashamed of my living condition, and now my friend wants to come visit!

Q.   help ! i really need advice. im friends with a guy-just friends ! and recently hes been asking to come to my house. im ashamed of the condition its in-it needs a lot of decorating and some of the floors are bare ! also i havent been totally straight ...

A.   12 February 2011: You're in the process of renovating? No worries, relax, my sister's place is a nightmare, and yet she's always got a party with loads of friends, neighbors. As long as it's a happy home, it's a good home.... (read in full...)

Can I stay friends only with my married lover?

Q.   Hi.. I have been having an affair with a married man (co worker) for 2 years. I am married aswell. We are both in unhappy marriages and here for our children only. We have had many ups and downs in the 2 years. On Wednesday we went away for ...

A.   12 February 2011: So sad, and I'm sorry you feel that way about him. I was in a similar situation...but I was single, he was married (I didn't know, and when I found out, ended it) As co-workers, I encouraged him to try and fix things with his wife. We still work ... (read in full...)

There's always a reason not to have sex with my wife!

Q.   So I am having trouble approaching the lack of sex that my wife and I have been experiencing. I am in the mood almost every night (except if I masturbated 1-2 days before, in those cases I could take it or leave it. Or if she is wearing her big ...

A.   12 February 2011: Well, If it helps, I think your wife is being unreasonable. Sex is very very very important, in a marriage. Be honest and upfront, tell her you need sex/love. Maybe she's unhappy with her life, find out what's missing in hers, to fix yours :) ... (read in full...)

Can one person fall in love with two people?

Q.   Is it possible to be in love with two people?...

A.   12 February 2011: Well I believe you can love many people, but you have to pick one, or none, or I guess end up on sister wives.... Three is a crowd, someone always gets left behind. No fun.... (read in full...)

My last girlfriend cheated on me. Will I ever find a another love who I will be able to trust?

Q.   Recently, I was cheated on by my girlfriend. I loved her so much and trusted her alot too, but she proved to be contrary to what I thought of her. Do you think I will find another girl whom I will love and trust? The problem is that I have totally ...

A.   12 February 2011: Everyone gets played at one time or another, sorry, she messed you up! But She's not worth your time & thoughts. you will find someone else. Who knows when? Enjoy being with yourself for the moment. And don't let her skew your thoughts on love. It... (read in full...)

My mom doesn't let me date anyone except my boss and I don't want to go out with him!

Q.   How to begin... Im 25 and living at home with my parents. Im going to school (graduating in May) so i havent moved out bc my parents are helping pay for school and i pay no rent or anything. Bc of this tho, my mother whom is very strict will bar...

A.   12 February 2011: Your mom sounds like a bitch and you need to grow up! You're educated, you seem smart, Where are your friends? Tell your boss he's a nice guy, but you don't think it would be appropriate to date/go out or whatever it is Mom wants. Save your mone... (read in full...)

Does this make me a bad person, knowing that he has a gf and still talking to him and wanting to fool ARound with him?

Q.   I work at a fastfood place and my coworker likes me and i like him but he has a gf but he doesn't know that I know he has a gf. He's super cute I gave him my # and I gave him a hug. I wanna get to know him better. I also wanna do "stuff" with him ( ...

A.   12 February 2011: Not bad, or stupid, it just makes you vulnerable. He's bad news if he wants to f*ck around with other girls, when he has a girlfriend already. You will be a challenge for him, if you decide to refuse, and he will pursue you, or get bored and look ... (read in full...)

Do people really fall out of love?

Q.   Im 29 and my girlfriend is 25. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. Just before Christmas we had been going through a rough patch and arguing over stupid stuff and calling each other names. She said she wanted some space so I moved out and ...

A.   12 February 2011: Yes they do. Sometimes it hurts like hell, and sometimes it's a sigh of relief. Give her space, keep yourself busy, meet other people, live your life! You didn't do anything wrong, she's just not ready for a relationship. This is her problem, you ... (read in full...)

How can I stop being jealous?

Q.   I love my boyfriend but how can I stop being so jealous when he talk to other females. I know he is a friendly person but I'm trying to trust him. I need help or I'm gone lose him. ...

A.   11 February 2011: Tell him, it bugs you. It hurts. I get jealous too. But I know he wouldn't act on it, because really my guy is goofy, and I think his flirting tends to annoy the other girl :) Kiss him passionately, get extra kinky frisky during playtime, show him ... (read in full...)

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