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I don't know if he fancies me?

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Question - (20 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Hey

Im 14 and this friend of mine is 16. We have been talking loads on msn, texting and on the phone. He flirts with me a lot and sometimes i think that he fancies me. He is dropping lots of hints that he does but he has a girl friend. He said that he would dump her for me any day and after a long time he said he was joking. I don't know if he fancies me but doesn't want to ask me out because of our age difference.

Thanks x

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A male reader, cian Canada +, writes (20 February 2009):

cian agony auntI wouldn't pursue this relationship.

He definitely seems to fancy you; however, think about his current girlfriend. If you steal her boyfriend away, she will be devastated. Imagine it happening to you. This can cause all sorts of issues.

Respect and Trust are key to any relationship, and he has violated both. If he is on MSN cheating WITH you, how long before he is cheating ON you...

Don't waste your time breaking your own heart. 3

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A female reader, maddierose Ireland +, writes (20 February 2009):

maddierose agony auntTimes are changing, and it hardly causes a blink to hear about a 14 year old and a 16 year old anymore. He might wait until your 15 because it sounds better! Just make sure there is no underage sex invonvled and that you don't get in the way of anything between him and his girlfriend. I'm telling you - you serisouly do NOT want an angry 16 year old lass on your back - it could turn into a real problem!

Good luck! x

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