How do I know that he loves gay sex?
Q. hiya,, I've got a problem mates.Any help plz. I love such a handsome guy older than me 4 years. I love love love him so much. I'm in doubt that he loves me. He is chatting only with me in class.having coffee time 2gather.He sometimes put his ha...
A. 26 March 2009: Tell him you like him. And see what happens. ... (read in full...)
Will he come back for me?
Q. Backgrounder: My ex boyfriend and I had been together since my birthday three years ago. We met at my b-day party, and hit it off really quickly. Before that point, we did not know each other. My ex moved in about a week later after that p...
A. 26 March 2009: Ok. Here's another attempt to help readers make sense of my relationship...
A) My ex and I shared a love with each other, that was long lasting and reciprocal. It still is there. However, he recently left his job (that he was working througho... (read in full...)
Will he come back for me?
Q. Backgrounder: My ex boyfriend and I had been together since my birthday three years ago. We met at my b-day party, and hit it off really quickly. Before that point, we did not know each other. My ex moved in about a week later after that p...
A. 26 March 2009: I think you misread what I posted.... (read in full...)
We get along perfectly but I don't know if he's the one
Q. I don't know if my bf and I are working anymore. Our long-distance relationship has drug on for a year and a half now and we've broken up more times than I can count. He loves me so much and he treats me so well. He always says he doesn't think he ...
A. 26 March 2009: Hey superconfused88,
Let me first say, that Jealousy is the highest form of flattery. He is jealous because he loves you; and he is possessive, because he doesn't want to lose you.
However, I wouldn't marry him quite yet - and it sounds like y... (read in full...)
I want to have plastic surgery on my breasts
Q. I know this is a very random question.... Lately i have been thinking how uncomfortable with my boobs..i want to go and have plastic surgery (stupid idea..i know) on the nipple area..so tonight i took some pictures of them to see if they are ...
A. 26 March 2009: At your age, it would be worth waiting to let your breasts fully grow in before pursuing cosmetic surgery. Perhaps there are still some changes that need to take place.
Talk to your GP doctor and let them assess your issues properly.
If anyt... (read in full...)
Fingering & virginity!
Q. After my boyfriend finger me, i had been pleasuring me with my fingers and i had introduced them to my vagina, i had never had sex before so i am wondering if i am still a virgen or if when i decide to have sex my bf would be able to notice it?...
A. 26 March 2009: Some would say that, if your hymen is broken, you are no longer a virgin. ... (read in full...)
In love with older woman but we kinda screwed things up
Q. I've been seeing this woman who about 11 years older than me for about 15 months now. She been divorced for a year now. When started are relationship everything was great. On weekends when she didn't have her kids she would stay about the whole ...
A. 26 March 2009: So what answer are you looking for?
I think that perhaps you should move on. While she is just rebounding, you are getting used. ... (read in full...)
Should I pack up his stuff and forget him?
Q. Hey all, My boyfriend and I had a great three year relationship going. I was his first true love, and things were heading toward commitment. Nothing seemed amiss. However, out of the blue, he just stopped wanting to be with me. He moved out of t...
A. 8 March 2009: I think I agree with you, its time to move on.
I just kinda wish that it never got to this point. I've invested so much of my life in this relationship, that the possibility of another relationship with anyone may be years away.
Do you have a... (read in full...)
I've been eyeing this girl and can't stop thinking about her
Q. i need help aunts there's this girl i've been eying and i cant stopp thinking about her, what can i do to get her to notice me...i dont know why but all of a sudden i get a wave full of feelings towards her and i 've never felt this way before.....
A. 8 March 2009: Just be honest.
It is scary sometimes to do this, but your honesty will go much farther to strengthen your relationship as friends or as more.
Find the time to speak to her in private, make sure its in person, and just tell her that, for th... (read in full...)
Is gold root safe or dangerous for a 26 year old man to use
Q. I'm a 26 year old man who was wondering how you can get hold of gold root and also wondering is it safe to take. I've heard it's meant to be a safe alternative to viagra....
A. 24 February 2009: they tend to make them wider in all directions, not just in length. I know that I have to wear a larger condom to accomodate...... (read in full...)
Is gold root safe or dangerous for a 26 year old man to use
Q. I'm a 26 year old man who was wondering how you can get hold of gold root and also wondering is it safe to take. I've heard it's meant to be a safe alternative to viagra....
A. 22 February 2009: If you do not wish to speak to a doctor, consider purchasing a larger condom size as well. You could be constricting your penis too much, and thus reducing blood flow, and thus reducing your erection. ... (read in full...)
Is gold root safe or dangerous for a 26 year old man to use
Q. I'm a 26 year old man who was wondering how you can get hold of gold root and also wondering is it safe to take. I've heard it's meant to be a safe alternative to viagra....
A. 22 February 2009: At 26, you shouldnt require any product like Viagra.
Speak to your health care professional. ... (read in full...)
When on a break, is sex outside of a relationship ok?
Q. Dear Uncles and Aunts, etc. My relationship is starting to gear back to normal; however, I have to be patient until my lover returns to me in August. Knowing that we are getting back together has been a great relief. However, I am struggling to ho...
A. 22 February 2009: We spoke again this evening, and I spoke about my feelings, with the support of this community behind me, and how it would be best for me to say no to his request.
Instead, I now might head out there for a month, and work on maintaining what we ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant and when should I take a test?
Q. I have been taking the combined pill, but there have been days where I have taken it late or missed on. I had unprotected sex with my partner and now we are worried that there could be a possibility of me being pregnant. Unfortunately it was not ...
A. 22 February 2009: Wait for a period. If you miss your cycle... Right away. ... (read in full...)
When on a break, is sex outside of a relationship ok?
Q. Dear Uncles and Aunts, etc. My relationship is starting to gear back to normal; however, I have to be patient until my lover returns to me in August. Knowing that we are getting back together has been a great relief. However, I am struggling to ho...
A. 22 February 2009: Thanks all. ... (read in full...)
Am I totally wrong for not being forgiven?
Q. If you expect your friend to be a perfectionist and a true friend, would you not have to be the same? My friend was going through some issues in her life. from this point on, she would cancel plans on me, or if I wanted to invite her to spend ti...
A. 22 February 2009: Your friend is likely overwhelmed by her personal issues, and this could be depressing or embarrassing for her. What she doesn't need is more things to overwhelm her. I applaud you giving her some time, but insist that you don't push the issue ... (read in full...)
She's muslim and she's lesbian AND she's unhappy because of the flack she gets off her family!
Q. I have a girlfriend. She is so special to me, she is my everything. We have been through so much together. I love her and she loves me. There is only one problem. She is a muslim, so it is frowned upon on her religeon to be a lesbian. Most ...
A. 22 February 2009: Hi Tuyen,
Thank you for your question.
Its challenging to deal with others ethics and morals when they are different from your own. Given that this is the case, its unlikely you will be able to sway her mom's opinion based upon her religio... (read in full...)
My manager doesn't want a girlfriend but flirts with me and texts, what shall I do?
Q. we both have been flirting with each other and we started doing stuff but stopped as he dont want a girlfriend yet but then we started having fun again and we are supposed to be friends and then we stopped it again and he stopped texting me and then...
A. 22 February 2009: I was always taught to "never stick my pen in the company ink."
I think this advice applies, despite the fact its cliche.... (read in full...)
Will this always hurt her?
Q. hiya :) well am 14 and i dont really no how to say this so here goes....... my gf of 2 and a half months is 15 and im 14, we have played around and stuff but ive never actually fingered her. i was wondering if i fingered her properly would i...
A. 22 February 2009: If it hurt her the first time, that is normal.
It could also hurt her subsequent times.
Assuming she was a virgin this time, you would have ruptured her hymen. It could also have bled. But yes, that would hurt her. So would the stretching s... (read in full...)
Irritated by my sister in law's behaviour!
Q. hi, i am a male of 26 yrs not married n my sister in law is 24 yrs. my sister in law is acting strange towards me. she is married to my elder brother. the problem is that she teases me very often which is embarrassing. the other day when i was goi...
A. 22 February 2009: I don't question if she loves your brother, however her advances are incorrect toward you. Whether or not you have done anything she perceives as flirting, it is important to confront the behaviour, despite how embarrassing it could be for you... (read in full...)
Is it worth my time waiting for my ex to return?
Q. Dear readership, I am/was in a 3 year long relationship that has had its ups and downs over the years. My partner and I have always recovered from the little fights we have that bring our relationship down; however, this last one might be the one...
A. 22 February 2009: UPDATE: So we have spoken and it sounds like we are going to get back together in August. So the question now is how do I find the patience to hold out for my lover to return, and not have my feelings fade? / not feel so lonely? And I gue... (read in full...)
Is it worth my time waiting for my ex to return?
Q. Dear readership, I am/was in a 3 year long relationship that has had its ups and downs over the years. My partner and I have always recovered from the little fights we have that bring our relationship down; however, this last one might be the one...
A. 20 February 2009: Thank you for your advice aphex.
I will wait out the storm.
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Today we had a phone call together, that tied up some loose ends... they are finally listening to my needs. I'll post where it leads.
Peace!... (read in full...)
Is it worth my time waiting for my ex to return?
Q. Dear readership, I am/was in a 3 year long relationship that has had its ups and downs over the years. My partner and I have always recovered from the little fights we have that bring our relationship down; however, this last one might be the one...
A. 20 February 2009: I guess I will have to wait it out until they are willing to talk then.
Thank you for your reply.
(I know close to 500 words is like a novel on here...)... (read in full...)
Will sex be painful?
Q. I have a tight foreskin and I'm going to have sex with my boyfriend. Would it be painful? If it would is there anything I can do to stop it being as painful?...
A. 20 February 2009: As the question shows, this is gay sex. I'm surprised no one really spoke to this. The first time a man has gay sex, it is painful for both partners. The receiver is stretched out, and the giver is pinched. Sodomy at 15 is not an unreasonable ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my older husband? I'm unhappy!
Q. Should I leave my husband? I am 32. I have been married for 12 years and have 3 children aged between 7 and 12. My husband is 23 years older than me. We have been together for a very long time. He is the only man I have ever been with. I ...
A. 20 February 2009: If control is an issue, do not be blinded by his words. You need to do what is best for you and the kids. He's a big boy. He can survive whatever comes. ... (read in full...)
I loved this married man, I don't understand why he replaced me?
Q. Hello Dear Friends, There is a situation that I have never understood in my life. Well, I have always found it very wrong that a girl goes out with a married man and I was convinced that I would never fall for a married man, but I did fall in love ...
A. 20 February 2009: Simply, the man was scum. He used you, and that was wrong. And from the sounds of it, he is using other women as well. Sorry to say, you aren't the first, and likely, not the last. Get well. ... (read in full...)
Where did you propose to your girlfriend?
Q. Where did you propose to your girlfriend?...
A. 20 February 2009: what part of canada are you in? there are many beautiful places.... (read in full...)
Lesbian attraction?
Q. alright, so i've been feeling the strangest feelings for my best friend lately. im 16 and a female. weird thing about my problem is that my best friend is also a female. i've never had sex before and i've never dated a woman before. i've been...
A. 20 February 2009: for some, it is a phase. if your feelings are true, then go for it. its 2009! no one judges you like they used to.... (read in full...)
Chance of pregnancy from this?
Q. If an underwear was ejaculated on with sperm then washed off with water and then a woman wears it, is there a chance she might get pregnant?...
A. 20 February 2009: Long way to go from surface contact inward. Sperm don't live long enough. If they were properly washed, then no worry.... (read in full...)
I don't know if he fancies me?
Q. Hey Im 14 and this friend of mine is 16. We have been talking loads on msn, texting and on the phone. He flirts with me a lot and sometimes i think that he fancies me. He is dropping lots of hints that he does but he has a girl friend. He said tha...
A. 20 February 2009: I wouldn't pursue this relationship. He definitely seems to fancy you; however, think about his current girlfriend. If you steal her boyfriend away, she will be devastated. Imagine it happening to you. This can cause all sorts of issues. Resp... (read in full...)
Should I leave my older husband? I'm unhappy!
Q. Should I leave my husband? I am 32. I have been married for 12 years and have 3 children aged between 7 and 12. My husband is 23 years older than me. We have been together for a very long time. He is the only man I have ever been with. I ...
A. 20 February 2009: Dear Anon Female, There is no one "right" answer for your situation. I ask you the following... If you haven't felt respect or trust, it might be time to leave him. If communication has broken down, its might also be time to leave him. Can... (read in full...)
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