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writes:Okay, I'm 17 and a Senior in High School. You think I would be living my life up and living it to the fullest extent. Well, a couple months ago (Julyish) my ex girlfriend breaks up with me. I understood because we were in a long distance relationship and she was swamped with school work and work as I was just working 4 days a week. This hit me hard because we did everything to progress our relationship to the next level. We were together for 2 years. It also hit me hard because an old friend of mine tried talking to her behind my back and said stuff like she was talking to him the same way. I fussed him out and he eventually left us both alone. But, now I was on her facebook because we actually tried talking to each other again like friends. Sadly, she was talking to the guy that was talking to her behind my back. Soooo, now I'm not talking to her again.Ever since our break up, I look back and miss her everyday. It's hard to talk to her because it all comes back to me and hits me hard. It really really hurts. I don't know what to do, I just wanna know how to get over her without thinking about her. It's just a stupid thing to get upset about.
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reader, DearMe  +, writes (4 September 2010):
You sound very sweet, and im sure you will find a new girl easily enough, one that lives near you and is easier to be with.
To get over her stop all comunication. Dont keep going on her face book, or it will hurt because it will bring back memories. Try your best to stop thinking about her altogether. Yes it will be hard! But you have to do it. Just get out more and meet new people. Im sure you will find someone much more nicer. And you will have a good realtionship. Fill your time up with other things and dont give your self time to think about her. In time you will get over her :). Good luck xx
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