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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So my problem is that, I cum too fast.The second my boyfriend sticks it in, I just cum and idk what I can do to keep myself from cuming so fast.Any tips?Is anything wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): Ha thanks you guyss
I just didn't know if it was normal cause all of my friends say they can never orgasm during sex so, kinda made me feel odd.
lol
But thankss.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (30 March 2010):
 There's nothing wrong with it. It's not like being a guy. If a guy cums that fast he's done for at least 15 minutes, but usually more. Most girls can orgasm multiple times without too much of a break.
FYI, 85% of an orgasm is psychological. Odds are you're REALLY turned on before sex and are just a real sexual person.
Have fun, and give your BF a high five for us...
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (30 March 2010):
 Well I must agree with most of the other responders. Lucky you and him! In more than 45 years of sexual activities, I think I've only known a few women quite so orgasmic. One girlfriend was very recent, and I was thrilled to so easily supply multiples for her via both oral and intercourse. Thats the great thing about women - unlimited orgasms!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (30 March 2010):
 Oooh, lucky girl. I, for one, am a little bit jealous!
So, if you cum too fast and your problem is that then you get exhausted and want to take a break, this is my suggestion. Start off with sex. Get off and then take a break - go down on him for awhile, or whatever foreplay fun you can come up with. Give yourself a little time to recuperate and then as soon as you're ready, jump back on the proverbial horse!
Hey - it could be worse. He could come too fast!!
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (30 March 2010):
 Lucky girl! Men normally complain about them cumming very fast because once they do, that's it for a while. But women can cum and cum and cum and it won't stop things. Enjoy it!
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female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 Some women can have multiple orgasms unlike men . After the first climax, many women can 'come' again, often within a minute or two.
This ability is extremely rare in males. Relatively few young women can achieve multiple orgasm, because it's an ability .
That is not a problem.There is nothing wrong with you .
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 ...and this is a problem because????? ....and too fast for what???? :-)
I know the poor guys would cop a bum wrap if they came so fast, but a girl doing it usally wont interfere with sex continuing. Once a woman has had an orgasm, second and subsequents are easier to reach, so it is a bonus imo, and probably means your about to have your mind blown before your guy gets there himself.
This happens to me at times if I am really worked up and I don't see it as a problem at all, .. far from it, ... lol. My man loves seeing me get right off and it scratches his ego to boot, ... so everyone is a winner.
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male
reader, Rasher  +, writes (30 March 2010):
My girlfriend does this. Never seen it as a problem as, as a woman, an orgasm doesn't stop your from enjoying sex and it's possible to have another orgasm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): enjoy it! If you can only have one orgasm, then that's another story, and perhaps seeing a doctor/sex therapist might be in order. Your boyfriend must think he's a god.
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