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female
age
30-35,
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writes:hi. i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more than 2 years, and things are just fine, we're kind of really serious, u know, but last month i cheated on him with his best friend : we were all at a party, that my boyfriend had to leave early, we (his best friend and i) had drunk a lot and started kissing and then went to his place. Nothin "really" happened, we didn't have sex but it was really close. I really do love my boyfriend, but ever since, i just can't stop thinkin about Him. we talked about it already and decided to "forget about it" and pretend nothin happened, but i just can't help it. I don't even know if i like him or somethin, or if i just want him to notice me.
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reader, Taylor-x  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 First of all , it sounds like you arent really sure how u feel about ure boyfriend. But it does seem to me like u really do love him otherwise you wouldnt be worryed about the situation! If youve been together for 2 years then you shouldnt let that go to waste! he sounds like a good guy to forgive everything thats happened. But if u dont want him then youve got to let him go. if u keep thinkin about this other guy it indicates to me like you dont really care about your boyfriend. trust me if u treat him bad he will leave and if he does how will you feel? because nothing comapres to heartache its the worst in the world!! and im sure you wouldnt want this to happen! i think you should go on a break with your boyfriend for a week, cut off all comunication. And see if u miss him! trust me it really works! xx Best of Luck Taylor-- P.s Let me Know how it goes! x
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