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writes:I really need help!!This year I have gone through so much. I was best friends with this girl for atleast 5 years and then she suddenly dumped me. She would talk about me to here new friends, and also to mutual friends. It was an extremly hard time because I had no one that I could go to and be friends with. She tried to be friends with me but it was only because her friends dumped her. I was extremly angry and I just ignored her and went with my other friends and did things with them, and completely blew her off. I did make an effort to talk to her and help her out with things, but i just wasn't ready for her to be my friend again. She really hurt me and didn't understand that there was no way I could go back to her and forget tha, that toally happend. She did many malicious thing that I just couldn't forgive her for. She sent me malicious messages on aim, myspace, facebook, and over texting. She even prank call me , and my parents.She gave out my number to many people also. I mean she just hurt me SO much. I tried to talk to her on aim many times telling her I want to work it out but she just told me to fuck off (and that's being kind. She said more things but I don't want to get into it).So, anyway I made two friends that were actually people I knew but I became better friends with. I really liked that but now the 3 of us are in a mess.The one girl talks about me to the other friend and he tells me. She even complains about me to him, and other people. I am sick and tired of not being able to trust someone, and I am now questioning the reliability on my guy friend. I NEVER want this to happen to me again EVER. I really need help, I have been on and off depressed over my ex friend, and I am starting to jsut fall into this pit where I feel like I cna't do anything about my two other friends. I really need to find a way to make new friends or something, but my school is just so cliquey i'm not sure how to exactly. Please I really need help. It's not like I haven't tried to do things with the ex friend and the other two. I mean really because of the girl i'm not friends with the ex and she just coned me and the ex friend. I can't live like this it eats me alive everyday. I can't go into my Sophmore year a mess again. Please any ideas, or anything. even if youw ant to know more. And believe me there is Plllennttyyy more i'm not adding in here.Any advice or anything that could help me befor school starts for me (sept. 3rd).Thank you so much!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): I no exactly what you meen!!!
My ex-bestfriend stated spreding untrue rumors about me and pitted all my "friends" against me but I see now that non of that matters coz when I started highschool 2years ago I was put into a booster group, i have dislexia and every1 I no thinks im stupid but I fell inlove with a guy there that was amazing! [so trust your friend take a risk he might be worth it] Eventualy I made my way out bt he dint. We brock up sadly. Bt I finaly got to no my so called "friend" being out n she was just vain n self obsesed so i decided to search for new friends and I found them where i least expected it TRUE friends you never loose! My ex-boyfriend becam my boyfriend and my ex-friend becam unpopular and unwelcome. My advice is to not steap as low. Get your revenge by moveing on if you want to rite a messege to me i'l be your 1st friend!
Good luck in your search!
p.s friends come natually. ;-)
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reader, Ometeotl +, writes (18 August 2008):
 Lets see, there is an estimated population of 6 billion people. There are plenty of people to go around. Your making a big deal out of these people. It's fine to get upset and and feel neglected, but move to better people. That is what life is all about, moving to better people and places. Don't try to fix anything because chances are they are not ready to do that. All you can do is go on with your life and meet knew people and if they ever need a hand and your willing to give out a hand then go ahead. Best of wishes.
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