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writes:hii people i m indian teen ...it is about a week for my birthday i m in serious relationship with my bf for 1year and 6 mnths ....v hav our own ups and down ....i adjust myself to solbe issues between us now the problem is 3 months back he spoke to two girls tried to flirt with them he never agreed to it ....i created big scene and his parents supported me emotionally then he agreed and said sorry ..though i did forgive him i cant forget what he did to me .......i cry sometimes and ask him blah blah....he always comfort me we are n distamce relationship he is meeting me for my birthday how should react to him ...what to do when he cuddles me r something blah ....i m 18 soon going to 19
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2014): it is me again .....i tried to ask him about break up.....he was soo stubborn he started crying like baby ....i was confused and asked his best friend about this stuff....he said my bf is serious about me still he is using my security ...since he is sure that i ll never ditch him and truthful to him he did that thinking i ll never leave him
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2014): Well, that is really strange that he proposed to another girl…
Frankly, it sounds like he is dating you for fun but still looking for another girl. I don't think anyone in a relationship deserves to be treated that way, and if he doesn't want to be with you then he should at least be man enough to break up with you.
I would ask him why he did it. If he apologizes and genuinely feels bad, then maybe he won't do it again. Hopefully you will be able to tell if he really is sorry.
It will take some time to rebuild the trust you had. He will have to prove to you that he really wants to be with you. If he doesn't, then I think you should move on.
If you catch him doing it again, you should definitely leave him!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2014): what he did actually was ....
he was in touch with two girls n fb without telling me then spoke too much with them avoiding me he even proposed one of the girl for fun .....
i was hurt .....he regrets for what he did still i cnt forget things happened....how should i react when we meet ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2014): Hi,What do you mean by "flirted"? Some guys come off as being flirtatious even if they're just being nice. I think there can also be harmless flirting--my ex used to flirt with girls, but I don't even think he meant to, he was just socially awkward and didn't know how else to interact with them. It didn't really bother me because I knew how much he loved me and I knew he would NEVER cheat.If your BF was trying to date/kiss/sleep with these girls, then he obviously did something wrong.If he was just talking to them, you need to let it go. However, do talk to him about how it made you feel, and ask him not to do it again.If he keeps doing it, then it is clear he does not respect you, and you might want to consider breaking up.Good luck :)
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