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I asked my BF to have STD tests before we sleep together. He says he can only get results over the phone, not on paper. Can I believe him/ how can I check the results?

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Question - (8 January 2013) 6 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2013)
A female Viet Nam age 36-40, *aithful000lol writes:

Hi guys. I have a matter about health. Me and my boyfriend are going to see each other soon, he will stay with me for 2 weeks. We have planned to sleep together this time, it will be the first time of us.

And for health safety, I asked him to take a blood test (since he has had many girlfriends before). One week ago he told me he had just taken the test in his mother's home town. He has not got the test result yet, then he left his mother home town to come back to the state where he is currently living in. He would call the doctor for the result tomorrow, and they would just give him the answer on the phone, without any test record paper or email, as he said.

No test record paper, just his words. How can I know if he's clean for sure? Please give me some ideas.

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A female reader, Faithful000lol Viet Nam +, writes (10 January 2013):

Faithful000lol is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Faithful000lol agony auntThanks Serpico. I try to be responsible for my health and my love's also. It makes a good life.

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A male reader, Serpico United States +, writes (9 January 2013):

Condom, like others have said here. Also, kudos to you for being so responsible.

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A female reader, Faithful000lol Viet Nam +, writes (9 January 2013):

Faithful000lol is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Faithful000lol agony auntThank you ladies for the answers. That's right, it seems to either use condom, or say no to sex.

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A female reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] United States +, writes (8 January 2013):

[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony auntNo proof, no sex. simple as that.

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A female reader, Daisy_Daisy United Kingdom +, writes (8 January 2013):

Daisy_Daisy agony auntIf you don't trust him to tell you the truth about his test results, you probably shouldn't have sex with him.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (8 January 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyou make him wear a condom no matter what that's how you protect yourself.

If he can't show you the paper to your satisfaction then he has to wear a condom.

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