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writes:If you ask a guy out, but he says he's not sure, is that good or bad? i asked this guy out, but he said he's not sure, and want's 2 no me better(at least, thats what i thought he said- i was quite shocked that i had the guts to ask, and didnt really hear. plus, it was really noisy). is this ok, or should i hide at school tomorrow??!! Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (18 February 2007):
 If he hasn't answered your email then he doesn't want to go out with you, at least not at the moment. And your friends teasing him won't be helping either, they will only be pushing him further away from you. He's very young (as are you) and probably not ready for a relationship with anyone yet. I would leave it for now.
Don't throw yourself at this boy. If you email him back you'll only come across as desperate and be making a fool of yourself. Leave it at that, if he's interested in you in the future he'll soon let you know.
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reader, Ask.Me.Anything. +, writes (17 February 2007):
Ask.Me.Anything. is verified as being by the original poster of the question Now he's completely ignoring me; i smile or say hi, and he acts as if he hasnt seen me. he's just being his normal self, messing around with his friends, stuff like that, and is acting like nothings happened between us- no, worse, as if he never even knew me. and my friends are being really weird- shouting his name, and one even slapped him! he doent knoe them, and so doesnt know why she slapped him, and i wish theyed stop, but i dont like him any more. and really angry at him, and myself for ever falling for him. iv emailed him once, saying i dont mind if he doesnt want 2 go out with me, but could he at least say one way or the other, but he's not replied. i dont knoe what 2 do.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 February 2007):
 This is very sensible on his part. You're both so young that being friends before you date is a really good idea. Next step is for you to suggest a day out somewhere where you can chat and get to know each other better. This isn't a date so don't treat it like one ie- don't agonise over what to wear, each pay for yourselves etc but just enjoy getting to know him. If it's meant to be things will happen naturally but be patient. Rome wasn't built in a day.
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