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writes:hello, i just want to know what to do with my current situation. Am years and he was 21 years. I have been with him friend for nine months and he was the one that deflowered me. my family and his knows everything about relationship. he called me on phone and complain that I don't always call him or even text him, that means I took him as a fool and nonentity. the way he shout and talk to me on phone, I feel insecure about it. I don't know what his feelings towards me since he took my virginity. there was something he did that kept me worried. I just got an anonymous call from unknown girl that her name is Lucy warning me to keep off from his boy friend Henry. I told the girl to show herself to me, let her act like a mature person. The girl warned me and keep on warning me about my boyfriend.I should stop sleeping with him, he didn't love me. I feel like he was the one that set everything up. I sent him text message that he should stop behaving in this way and its not good for strong relationship, lets stop acting immature. I am sorry if I have done anything wrong..I miss you. I got a reply from him "Sorry for yourself and don't miss me". I feel very sad about it and worried. is he doing it to test me or what?, because the relationship is leading to something serious "marriage"someone should advice me one what to do.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (20 November 2015):
 Lucy is his other girlfriend and it sounds like they knew each other before you. It was not a set up. He was dating both of you at the same time. His cheating got busted by Lucy and she forced him to stop talking to you. You are innocent in this but didn't know what went wrong. If he's so quick to drop you, that's because his heart belongs to Lucy. This has nothing to do with virginity. What you should do in the future is not to trust so easily because it seems like the marriage is the magic word that has been thrown around, by anyone. All it takes is a guy who utters the word marriage, then the girl would sleep with him.
If he has the reason to hook up with you, that could be because Lucy would not sleep with him until he marries her. So to keep up this pretense of chastity he got his urges satisfied somewhere else.
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