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female
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anonymous
writes:I m madly in love with one of my classmates....to make him close to me i was ready to do anything...actually he had a bad impression on everyone. Everyone including me used think he is selfish,mean and doesnt care abt feeling of others..still i wanted to get close to him so i started talking to him and he had no frnds so even he was enjoying being frnds with me...I started pretending i m selfish n that i dont care abt others just to get closer to him..but now after becoming very close to him,i realised that he is not mean..he is a very good person..he is neither selfish nor mean..actually its his parents those who r selfish..the problem is i pretended to be selfish,,but now he thinks i m selfish which is actually very wrong..he is still frnds with me bt i hav a wrong impression on him n he said he said me once he wants a girlfriend who is not selfish and is not mean...i m not getting,,what should i do in order to make him understand that i m not selfish????.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): Just like you realised he wasnt the selfish, mean guy when you got to know him, let him get to know the real you. Be friendly and do little things for him. Show him that youre the kindhearted, lovely person you are and it will be fine! Hope everything goes well for you! X
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