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writes:I know this is going to sound wrong but I need your help.I’m 16 years old and a sophomore living in CT. I’m in love with my friends mom who is 45. I know this sounds wrong but I’m really in Love with her. She’s beautiful, smart, wise and funny. We talk all the time when I’m over my friends house. We sometimes flirt and joke around. I so want to have a relationship with her. Unfortunetly she is married. They have two kids together. However he is a no good husband. He’s always out of town and always neglects his wife. I want to somehow tell her or mention how I love her. Her husband’s out of town all the time, but I need to pick a time when she’s alone any ideas? She thinks I’m really funny and clearly doesn’t have a great marriage. How can I seduce her and tell her my feelings?I know this sounds wrong but I’m in love with her. The age of consent in CT is 16 so it would be legal. Please help me.
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reader, JERRY300  +, writes (6 April 2011):
Read ur book and forget about ur friend's mum
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): Hay frnd ,
You should not medeate to ur frnd mom , shw would b ur aunty so please give her respect if you thought that she want to you that is your wrong tthinking , Bcoz she has a son who is ur frnd so it's clear that she also look like as her son to u ,
if u think she is exposing in front of you that also ur mistake generally a domestic women wear that types of loosing cloth where you can easily see her cleavage that's mean not she attracted you ,She treated as her son .
And we know that our mind could not diverted wrong against our mother so remove your sickness against your frnd mom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): i want to know...are you a 41-50 year old female? or a 16 year old sophmore gender unknown? i think this is a troll post. mal
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 March 2010):
 You are not in love with your friend's mom . What you call love is in fact LUST!!.You want to seduce her and have sex with her. That is not love.
At 16, you don't really know what love is. Your love is either infatuations or puppy love .
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): I am 45 and I have to tell you that I would not be interested in a 16 year old.
I know I feels like love, but it a crush, leave it at that or you are going to get hurt. I agree with domo kum go ahead and enjoy the fantasy but leave it at that
Ask yourself how your best friend would feel if you made a move on his mum, do you want to loose his friendship over this
Plus what a marriage looks like from the outsiders view isn't the same as what actually is
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): You're sixteen and she's forty-five........you're not in love with her, you're obsessed with her. At her age, she'd have to be a pedophile to even think of touching you or having a lover's relationship with you. Besides that, everything that CaringGuy said, as far as restrictions go. Also, just because the legal age states it's alright doesn't mean it's alright when someone 40's to 60's is messing around with a kid. It's downright sick, but you might not realize it or see it that way at your age, which is why it's even more disgusting when people take advantage of teenagers. When you're her age, or probably alot younger, you'll really understand, and when you see kids your age, you'll realize how it would be completely wrong and sick.
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reader, bite  +, writes (6 March 2010):
 Um You probably won't want to hear this but it's probably not the best idea to try anything with her.
For one thing She probably feels safe teasing & flirting with you because you are a fair bit younger & she most likely doesn't consider that you are feeling like this.
Also, She is married & even if the guy is not a good husband, she's not ACTUALLY avaliable.
Another thing to consider is that she is your FRIENDS mom, I would imagine your friend would be horrified & devastated if you ever did become more to his mom, so are you prepared to lose his friendship.
Finally it is more than likely that if anything did happen between the two of you & you got together people would ostrasize her & she would definately be treated badly as she will be seen as the woman who seduced a boy. Even if you are the one to intiate things, from the worlds point of view it will be her that's at fault because unfortunately you are so much younger than her, so if you love her would you really want her to lose the respect of her peers, & friends & everyone that she loves and cares for because of you?
There's also the future to think of. Would you stay at school while she supports you? Would you get a job? Where would you live & how would you pay for it?
Maybe, if it's difficult being around her because of these feelings, try hanging out with your friend away from his house.
Sorry that that probably wasn't what you wanted to hear. I wish you the best mate.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 March 2010):
She's married and she's your best friend's mother. You can't touch her. If you make move on the married mother of your best friend, you're no better than he own husband. Yes she's beautiful, she's smart , wise an funny. But she is not yours to take. At all.
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