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writes:I'm 29 yrs old unmarried female. My plight is that I wanted to be in good books of my boss so, for that I became friendly with his wife. We became good friends but, over the period of time I realised that I liked her a bit more and we got into sexual relationship. My boss's wife and I are in love but, she can't leave him. She has 2 yr old child also. She loves us both but, I feel she loves him more. I don't want to break her home and I don't want to leave her too. I just can't live without her. I can't stay a day without her. Please help me. I just can't think and its really painful and in our country such relation is not acceptable. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): Crikey i'm really sorry to hear all of that, I can't even begin to imagine how hard that must be. It's a tragedy that in your country it is unacceptable. I know it is very easy for me to say but I agree that you should move away to somewhere more liberal or else your life will be a struggle when it's not permitted to love who you love. This woman doesn't sound like she wants to leave her husband and as hard as it is it might be best for you to try and move on and find somebody who is willing to accept how they feel. I'm sorry I don't have any more advice, it's such a difficult and complex situation. Good luck, I hope you find happiness. I will be thinking of you and any others in a similar situation to you. xx
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 I seriously think that if you want happiness you should move to more liberal countries. I know you have your job there but I would rather die than not have a chance of loving who you want to love. 29 years is a lot of repressing your desires.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 In your Muslim country , a man can marry 4 wives. Have you thought of being his wife and it will make your case stronger and legally right.
Otherwise , you should walk away because if you are found out , you will suffer the terrible consequences in your Islamic Sharia laws.
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