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writes:Last week I started talkin to this guy and we were really getting on well and i asked him if he was single and he said "yeh but im not really looking because ive just come out of a relationship" which was understandable and more or less the same as me at that time. But over the last week weve been flirting non stop and he is picking me up on thursday to take me college because I have an exam and its out of his way to take me there and he said that he would do anything for me. So now I am all confused about the way he feels about me and I really like him, has anybody got any ideas of what I could say to him to find out if he likes me without actually asking him straight out.
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reader, scythe  +, writes (15 June 2008):
 try and not enter into a relationship with him too soon. you will only be his rebound girl. he has told you that he isnt ready for a new relationship, and he might have not gotten over his ex yet. you dont want to be the chick he uses to fill the void. ive been there twice and it hurts.
instead, be his best friend. when he is over his ex and ready to find someone new you will be there for him.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 June 2008):
It seems that yes he does like you, perhaps as a good friend, perhaps as more.
However, if he is just out of a relationship then you DO NOT want to be his rebound girl.
Be his friend, get to know him, flirt and look gorgeous for him, let him realise that his ex means nothing to him and THEN worry about how to win him.
Besides with the pressure of exams at the moment, you really don't want to be starting something new as you'll both be stressed out and snappy.
After they are over I bet you'll be going to all kinds of parties together anyway... see what happens then!
Good Luck!! xx
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