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Done missionary, done doggie..now he wants me on top! I need tips on how to do this!

Q.   I've been seeing this guy on and off for a while and we've had a lot of sex, but mostly just missionary and doggie-style. Lately he's been really pushing me to be on top. The only problem is, I haven't ever been on top before and I don't really ...

A.   4 December 2006: I am sooo glad that you found the tips helpful. Here is one last bit of words as a tribute to your further erotic adventures. Live it to the fullest!: from 'The Butcher' by Alina Reyes - "Then I mounted on top of him, pressed my vulva against ... (read in full...)

When I'm alone..I'm horny! But with my bf..I don't want sex! What's wrong?

Q.   I never want sex with my boyfriend. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we started having sex after a month. The problem is I never want to have sex with, I'm not sure whether it's because maybe I'm not truly physically attra...

A.   24 November 2006: Hi Ellie, Don't despair, there's nothing wrong with you, it's simply a perception problem that is interfering with your erotic self and in turn, interfering with your relationship. This might sound a little crazy but try this. It sounds like by ... (read in full...)

He makes me feel old before my time - should i leave?

Q.   Hi I'm looking for advice. I am not happy with my life, i am 26 and i feel so sad like my life is slipping by me. i wish i was 17 again. i would do things so differently. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 years now, we have split up a ...

A.   20 November 2006: I know you situation feels patheticaly hopeless but believe it or not it is incredibly simple. You just have to be ready to hear the answer and then live it. Easier said then done right? To start, let me tell you that I have walked in your love... (read in full...)

I was cheated on! Again! I've lost hope in men..are there decent ones out there?

Q.   well it happened again. I was cheated on. I went out with this guy who i really liked. We got on so well most of the time. However we started arguing one week he decided he'd had enough and we split up. Im only young 15 he was nearly 16. I found out ...

A.   20 November 2006: Hi Kat, Sorry about your early experiences with my brethran so far. I know it realy sucks but as I put my right hand on a bible, I can honestly tell you that the type of guy you dream about does exist, he just has to grow up a little and then of ... (read in full...)

I care for my boyfriend but now theres this girl too i want!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and i thought i loved him but now im not sure. I mean he's wonderful, everything a girl could ask for. Ever since I've been with him i haven't noticed any other man. But now I'm in trouble because I met ...

A.   20 November 2006: Wow ! Congratulations, you win the Olympics of difficult relationship situations. I have had many friends in your same situation and my advise...tread very carefully with much thought and trepidation. First of all, it sounds like you need to ... (read in full...)

We had an argument over the barmaid with the ugly tattoos and he refuses to apologize!

Q.   Hi My b/f and i were at a bar that was somewhat grundgy. The bartender had these ugly tatoos on her arm and something in her lip and wearing leather so her bo*bs can hang out a little. And it pretty much looked disgusting. By the time we were rea...

A.   20 November 2006: I have to admit when I first read the beginning of your post, I laughed out loud but I totaly get your angst. You also must live in either San Fran or Seattle :) First of all, stop, take a breath, meditate a little and realize that you are VERY... (read in full...)

My bf and I never see each other, and I fancy another guy. I feel so unfaithful! Help me!

Q.   Im going out with this GORGEOUS guy and i love him loads im only 17 and im still a virgin, on the other hand, there is this guy at college he's is always dead nice to me and he brilliant, and i fancy him alot but im going out with this guy and i ...

A.   20 November 2006: This is a simple one. You are SEVENTEEN ! You are not married. This is the time in your life to find out who you are as a woman before committing to one person for life. I would suggest to be honest with you 'regular' boyfried, that you love him, ... (read in full...)

Done missionary, done doggie..now he wants me on top! I need tips on how to do this!

Q.   I've been seeing this guy on and off for a while and we've had a lot of sex, but mostly just missionary and doggie-style. Lately he's been really pushing me to be on top. The only problem is, I haven't ever been on top before and I don't really ...

A.   20 November 2006: Dear Wishing you were on top ! Don't EVER feel stupid for asking such questions. Especially since you are smart enough and curios enough to ask which equals informed which equals improved/the celing's the limit sex life for you. That being sa... (read in full...)

Why do they not commit?

Q.   what does a man get out of withholding a commitment and engagement from a woman that they are in love with?why is it that they keep changing the goals that a woman much reach before they get to the point where they make the committment? why do men ...

A.   13 October 2006: I know you were appealing to other women for this answer but I think you will probably only get an honest clear answer from a guy, especially a guy who was guilty of the same as your boyfriend. That would be me. My incredibly perfect beautiful ... (read in full...)

Does it hurt the first time a girls gets fingered?

Q.   i have never done ne thing sexual im 16 and now i hav a BF so hopfully we will be soon! so... does it hert the first time girls get finger-ed? ...

A.   8 October 2006: Honestly, yes it can depending on how sensitive or insensitive he is to you that first time. A lot depends on how excited you are before he tries as well. You might want to get a small bottle of lube from any local super market or drug store and ... (read in full...)

I am a teen virgin-my bf wants to have sex. Should I shave down there?

Q.   hi i am a teenager and i am a virgin. my b-f wants to start having sex...I need to know is it better to shave down below or not?? ...

A.   8 October 2006: My suggestion is to do what makes you feel the most comfortable and sexy ? That is the key because honestly, you are in control and he has no clue at this point in your young relationship. Whatever you decide makes you feel sexy WILL make you more ... (read in full...)

Why do guys prefer girls shaved 'down there'?

Q.   I have now shaved my vagina but one thing i still dont understand...why do boys prefer it shaved?...

A.   8 October 2006: The better question is why did you shave it in the first place? Just because you thought all guys prefer this? I would suggest that you only do what makes YOU feel comfortable and sexy.That will make you sexy to any guy. I dont'know how many times ... (read in full...)

Male Opinion please! Why do men still insist on looking at porn at the risk of a relationship when their partner is more than happy to have sex!?

Q.   Looking mostly for guys opinion. Thank you... I have a problem. I caught my man watching porn and I am very upset. Let me start from beging. 5 years ago, when I started to go with him, our sex life was good. We would watch porn together and to ...

A.   8 October 2006: This is such a common problem these days. Obviosly from the information you gave, the problem is not the porn but your relationship. It's kind of like putting the cart before the horse. The porn is just a syptom of the greater relationship issues as ... (read in full...)

Do guys enjoy giving a girl oral and whats the best way to go, shaved or not?

Q.   Hi, my boyfriend tried to give me oral but i just wasnt ready so we didnt go through w/ it. Well actually the thing is we've been together a year and we have an awesome relationship but that is one thing that i've never done so i dont know what to ...

A.   8 October 2006: First of all Kudo's to both of your for..."we've been together a year and we have an awesome relationship". That's definitely the key thing here as it will make both your first oral experience a much more fun and memorable one. As for guys ... (read in full...)

I did things on webcam at the age of 12, now I regret it. How can I forget it?

Q.   since i was 12 ive done bad things i used to show boys on cam myself naked, now i really regret it. how can i forget about it? was it illegal? i used to do it cos i was ashamed with my body and they used to say they loved it even tho i was flat c...

A.   8 October 2006: So sorry that this happened to you and you are feeling bad. You have to give yourself a break though. Understand that you are in a really difficult generation. With crazy technology and pressures to be sexy and to be an adult so strong, it is so ... (read in full...)

When a woman has a multiple orgasm, what is the average number?

Q.   What is the average number for a woman to have a multiple orgasm?...

A.   8 October 2006: I feel funny answering to this post being a male but I could not resist. Going out on a limb, I think most relationship successfull women would agree with me that the answer doesn't have an answer. From my experiences, there is no average number. It ... (read in full...)

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