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anonymous
writes:hi guys, id really appreciate some help here! :) basssically my boyfriend and i tried having sex for the first time last night. it was so strong emotionally and so special that i dont regret it at all, and im glad it happened but it didnt manage to go all the way in because he's a bit bigger (as in wider) than most guys and ive obviously not slept with anyone before. so i was just wondering if you could give me any tips or ideas on how to make it a bit more painless for me.. i understand it is going to be uncomfortable no matter what but anything you might know could help greatly! thankyou :) Reply to this Question
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reader, empty-1  +, writes (2 February 2010):
The first couple of times can be painful, too, just because you've never done this before. If your hymen was still intact, that can cause pain as well as it either stretches or breaks to accomidate the large insertion. The second time will be a little easier, and the third a little easier, and so on.
You may find yourself actually enjoying the physical sensation before long, but you do need to get used to it.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): Ask him to be gentle with you and go at the pace that you are comfortable with.
Sex is just not about him enjoying it.
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