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writes:Two weeks back while playing soccer, my shot on goal hit my girlfriend on face, she was standing close to goalpost, which left her in extreme pain and swelling. It was an incident and I made apology but she made issue of it and dumped saying that I did intentionally just to satisfy my inner grudge that I might be holding for her which wasn't the case. For the last ten days, I have been trying reaching her but she isn't answering my phone and emails. What should I do in this crazy situation which also sounds funny and tragic . Any suggestion from you people will be of my help. Thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, cmarieky  +, writes (3 July 2011):
Your gf knows better than to stand so close to the goal. I mean really, never take this chic to a hockey tournament she'd swear you had some ulterior motive if she got hurt. Tell her to woman up n put a bandage on it. Geez
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2011): What happened shows that you don't care too much for her, otherwise her safety would have been your number 1 concern when you were playing soccer. You should have seen where she was standing and anticipated the possibility of the ball going her way. If I were her, I would probably break up with you as well.
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reader, llifton +, writes (3 July 2011):
 she must think you have some great aim!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2011): oh please my husband has accidentally given me broken nose when we were playing sports (basketball) while dating.
she will go on believing whatever it is she wants to believe and nothing you do or say will change her mind.
maybe she's being immature and trying to milk this for all it's worth and hoping you'll grovel more and more just so she can get satisfaction. don't let her have that. if she refuses to talk to you just leave it and let her be, she's the one choosing to break off contact so let her.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (2 July 2011):
 I agree with the majority. Anyone used to sports knows that accidents happen. In truth, people usually wear the black eyes and fat lips as a badge of honor.
If she's been ignoring you for 10 days, it's really not about the accident. Stop communicating with her in every form. You didn't do wrong. It was an accident.
Time to start living as if you are really broken up. She blew up your relationship. No more chasing after her.
Find a girl who loves the outdoors and can take a lick and keep on playing hard. You know it was an accident. There's no hidden resentment thing going around...that's absurd. I played a lot of soccer when I was younger, and I got hit in the face many times. The only time I couldn't shake it off was when it hit my nose in just the right way, and my jersey was full of blood. Trust me, I was laughing with my teammate who accidentally kicked it at me. That's how the game goes!
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (2 July 2011):
don,t mean to upset you but sounds like she has been looking for a excuse to break up with you and she thought that was the perfect excuse. i personally wouldnt of reacted this way and split up with someone if i was truly happy with that person i would of saw it for what it was a accident.
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reader, freeme +, writes (2 July 2011):
 I once accidental hit my son in the face with a football, while he was standing near goal. I have a hard shot. He screamed in pain, and asked why I would do that to him. I told him how sorry I was, and he forgave me 5 minutes later. Unconditional love is funny that way. Good Luck.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (2 July 2011):
 well if you managed to aim the ball at her face and actually hit your target then you must be a REEEEEAAALLLY good footballer! sounds like she may be using this football thing as an excuse to break up, as you have been having problems lately (she tells you you held a grudge)question: why do you WANT to be with a girl who would break up because of this? the relationship clearly doesn't mean so much to herx
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