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writes:I went on a blind date this weekend. Prior to the date we spoke, emailed, and texted quite often for a week. When we met, I liked her immediately. We spent 5 hours together and had a great time... I think, hahaha. We got cozy with each other... a little kissing, hand holding, etc... I sent her a text when I got home to let her know I had a great time and she sent a text back saying the same. So, the day after, late in the day, I called her to say hi and see how she was doing. I got her voicemail and left a message. Now I'm hoping she calls back. So now the question is, if I don't hear back from her, how long should I wait before following up? and if she doesn't call back in the next couple of days, does it mean she's not interested or changed her mind somehow?Let me know what you think!Thanks!
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reader, Scorpio1112 +, writes (26 January 2010):
Scorpio1112 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the answers! Since the time I posted this question, she did get back to me via text. And we exchanged several texts. Not really sure why she didn't call, but, whatever.
She said she's having a very busy week, and I know she's got a lot going on. I told her she should take a break and go out with me this weekend. She said she will see how her week goes and get back to by Thursday. So, we'll see!
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (26 January 2010):
 She is intrested. If she wasn't, she would not have spent five hours with you. I don't trust voice mail. I don't know how many times I got a voice mail a few days after it was actually sent. I say give it a day and then call her again. Let her know that you are intrested. She is probably writing this site asking why it is taking her blind date so long to call back.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (25 January 2010):
 Call her back now if it was yesterday when you left the message. Three days is too long in woman time, and if she likes you she will be distraught - yes, distraught - if you wait 3 days to call again. Call her now then again tomorrow if you don't catch up with her today. I even think you should send her a txt telling her that you're thinking of her. If you don't hear anything from her in a week then I think you should even try one more time, by txtg, to get in touch with her. Probably after that you can leave the ball in her court, as she has your number. I wouldn't go so far as to say she isn't interested, even if you hear nothing after a week; one never knows what could be going on.
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reader, Scorpio1112 +, writes (25 January 2010):
Scorpio1112 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat's what I was leaning towards. Although if I don't hear back I would be curious as to the reason... Of course, better off not trying to understand a woman's reasoning sometimes!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 January 2010):
Wait 3 days, then call again. If you still don't get an answer, then let her go. I always give 3 days then call again, if still no answer or lack of interest, then she's not the one.
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