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writes:I have this friend who offered up his house for me to stay at when I drive through to visit my sister. We aren't that great of friends but only because we live pretty far away. We get on incredibly well and I had a tiny crush on him/we'd flirt a lot (that really isnt very relevant, though). I know he doesnt expect anything, neither do I. We're both still in college and broke, so it would so great if I didnt have to spend money on a hotel.Im just wondering if it would be rude to ask him to crash on his couch? I cant really tell if he was just being polite, since we havent really talked in a while. And if I do ask him if its ok to stay a night, how should I phrase it so that it seems like he has the option of saying no?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (21 March 2012):
 Go for it! Take a deep breath, be confident. He wouldn't have offered his house if he didn't mean it. Would you ever offer your couch to someone you disliked unless there were extenuating circumstances? Probably not. I'm sure he just enjoys your company and wants to be a good friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2012): Im the original poster
and yes, this is true. i guess i am just good at second-guessing/paranoid im reading people's invitations as sincere when theyre just.. niceties. guess i shouldnt prey on my doubts! thanks
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reader, person12345 +, writes (20 March 2012):
If he already offered up his house, what more is there to ask?
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