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Name - Baylee Louise

Age - 18

Location - London/Brighton baby!

Status - Taken

Studies - Politics-A, Sociology-A*, Economics-B and Maths-A / Passed my A-Levels now Gap Year to PARTAY!!

Likes - Music, Drawing, Writing, Partying, Sleeping, Eating and Shopping

Dislikes - Spiders, Moths, Toes, Orange juice and Rain

I'm having an affair with my sister's fiance..

Q.   I thought this through over and over and just don't know what to do. Hopefully some of you may be able to help me. I'm sorry if this turns out to be a bit long but I just want people to see the whole picture. I've been with my boyfriend since ...

A.   6 May 2009: Don't you think that it may be abit ovious what you have been up to if you both 'run away' whilst they're at work? Best thing here is to be honest, yeah she probably will hate (is a very strong word and i do apoligise) you for a very long time but... (read in full...)

I thought the sperm was meant to go upwards, not back out??

Q.   heya just a quick question - the other day i had sex without a condom (its ok im on the pill and i was my bf's first so he doesnt have anything)and afterwards i found that sperm was leaking out of me- is this normal? cos i thought it was kinda meant ...

A.   30 November 2008: Its normal for sperm to come back out it doesnt all go inside you. Its nothing to worry about. More than likely it will happen all the time.... (read in full...)

Should teenagers date before 16? What should they limit to?

Q.   So what do you think? Should people date before 16? And if they do, what do you think are the limits in a relationship? :) x...

A.   9 November 2008: I don't see the problem with teenagers dating before they are 16 and the limits should be what they feel comfortable with. For example when i was 14 I lost my v to a guy i was dating because i felt comoftable and wanted to. Im not saying thats right ... (read in full...)

What can I get my 16-year-old boyfriend for Christmas?

Q.   hiya its almost christmas!!! and my boyfrind has already brought me a gift and i have no idea what to get him he's 16 and it so difficult on what to decide on what to get him its our 2nd christmas together weve been together for a lil ova a...

A.   9 November 2008: ooh a photobook that was a good one. I would seriously just get him some aftershave maybe some dvds depending on how much you want to spend you can get them experience days out I'm getting my boyfriend sphering for 2 this xmas it looks awesome. ... (read in full...)

Why do I always orgasm so quickly?

Q.   Hi, I'm 27 years old, and when me and my girlfriend are having sex I sometimes have orgasm too quickly, sometimes it doesn't even take a minute. I don't really mind this that much, and even my GF says it is ok, but it makes me feel that I am not ...

A.   9 November 2008: try wanking a couple of hours before then you can have sex for longer. ... (read in full...)

Is this really over because I think he still has feelings for me? It beaks my heart to think it is!

Q.   Me and my Boyfriend broke up a few days ago, he said he wasn't ready to be in a relationship and we moved too fast and we've been together for 8 months, but it wasn't a horrible break up,and we talk on the phone like friends, and hung out for a ...

A.   10 May 2008: I would leave it a couple of weeks to see if he's ready to try again. But if your still not together in a month I would stop speaking to him on the phone and hanging out with him because it only makes getting over him harder. And once that is done ... (read in full...)

I don't miss him when we're apart, is this natural? Or a bad sign?

Q.   I've been dating my boyfriend for 4-5 months. We get along really well, I fancy the absolute pants off him and still feel in that 'honeymoon' period even though we are settling into the comfortable phase of our relationship. When I'm with him I f...

A.   10 May 2008: Sounds like to me that you don't actually love him yet... you just love being around him. (i apoligise if you think that is wrong of me to assume) But that is natural to feel if you don't love him. The fact that you had been arguing may of added... (read in full...)

He wants sexy but I don't think I am...

Q.   hi everyone ok i need help from all guys. my bf wnts me 2 do something sexy for him and im not sexy one bit. im worried that he mite not like what i do. so thats what i need help on guys what do ur gfs/wives do that is sexy 4 u? i want him 2 ...

A.   10 May 2008: I know im not a guy but thought i would right anyway. I suggest buying some handcuffs and blindfold and tease him for a good half hour works everytime i've used it lol. Also i know if you take the lead during sex they love that. Hope th... (read in full...)

If I didn't have this scar, I'd be a different person! What can I do about it?

Q.   I have a very big problem. I have a boyfriend who loves me infact more than I love him. We've been together a long time infact I'm presently living with him but the problem is that I have a scar on my left leg. Hot water poured on me when I was ...

A.   31 March 2008: I wouldn't worry about the scar on your leg if he loves you it isn't going to matter. I have scars on both my legs after a dog attacked me so i know how concious it can make you. Try something like bio-oil apparently it improves the appearence of ... (read in full...)

Should I sleep with him?

Q.   Ok, so my problem is with my mate, who is a boy. We've known each other for around 18 months and we really do get on well. Recently we've been flirting, texting each other loads, now we've got on to discussing sex. He wants us sleep together even ...

A.   31 March 2008: I think that you should do what you think is right. If he respects you he will respect your decision. And you don't called a slapper if you sleep with a guy your not in a relationship with. You get called a slapper if you sleep with lots of guy... (read in full...)

He's been so good to me since my boyfriend died and I've fallen head over heels for him, should I tell him?

Q.   My boyfriend died last August when I was 3 months pregnant and since I was 5 months pregnant I have been living with his best friend. He has been doing everything that my boyfriend should have been doing like coming to scans with me, decorating t...

A.   31 March 2008: Quite clearly it could of been an accident!! I think you should tell him. The worst that can happen is he says he doesn't feel the same. Which I think is highly unlikely if you both live together and he has really taking your boyfirends place. ... (read in full...)

I just lost my virginity- it hurt him because I'm really tight- will it get more comfortable?

Q.   hey, i lost my virginity two weeks ago. my boyfriend said that i was 'tight' and it hurt him a bit. Anyway, we did it again and although it didnt hurt him this time it still hurt me a bit even though he was gentle and he kept asking me if he wanted ...

A.   28 March 2008: The first few times you have sex it does hurt because all your muscles are 'tight'. But i would recommend different positions and more foreplay also lube can help. Good luck... (read in full...)

Can the morning after pill abort a baby?

Q.   Can the morning after pill abort a baby? Just, I took it, and just under a week later I began a thick, brown period-like thing (presuming it's a period, but I'm not due for another 15/16 days). Could this be my body naturally aborting the baby, due ...

A.   21 February 2008: No the contraceptive pill stops you producing an egg. Usually girls take the morning after pill if they have had unprotected sex and do not want to have a baby. The morning after pill induces a miscarriage.... (read in full...)

Have you ever told someone you loved them, but you didnt? why?

Q.   Here is a question i asked early this morning, i'm putting back on as i wasnt as many answers as i can. How many of you out there have told a girlfriend, boyfriend, fiance, wife, husband you loved them but really you didn't? Just curiosity,...

A.   16 February 2008: I told my ex for the last 3 months of our relationship I loved him. I was hoping that I would change my mind and actually love him but we had grown apart.... (read in full...)

Should I tell my ex the baby is really his?

Q.   Last year i was meant to have an abortion after me and my boyfriend split up, but i never. I never told my ex i was pregnant either. I gave birth to a healthy baby boy called Levi on 24th January. I have seen my ex 1 or 2 times since we split u...

A.   16 February 2008: I think you should call your ex and tell him the truth. Although you may think you are doing this for all the right reasons your not. The only person who is going to be hurt the most is you son. All you can do is try. If he walks out on his s... (read in full...)

I gave him the green light to touch me, but he didnt. Whats wrong?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a month. He's very affectionate and likes to hold me, cuddle me and caress me. We've not slept together yet but I've slept in his bed with him and the other night we were both really turned on. I had ...

A.   16 February 2008: Maybe he got abit nervous. Its probably nothing to worry about maybe he would like to take things abit slower?... (read in full...)

I have a small penis,,how can I satisfy a female?

Q.   Hi im a guy in my late teens and im really embarrassed ive got a very small penis just on 2 inches fully erect ive never had a girlfriend im to embarrassed what can i do can i even satisfy a girl?...

A.   16 February 2008: Not every girl is satisfied through penertration so just do lots of foreplay. And apparently a girls g-spot is only 2 inches up anyway. Having a small penis may be embarassing but if you find the right girl she is going to like you no matter. ... (read in full...)

I feel she only needs me as a dad for the kids now, and I'm doubtful of her love. Should I give up so easily?

Q.   Hey guys. My problem is I don't think my fiannce loves me anymore, we have been having problems since before christmas and it just seems like we are going round in circles. She used to tell me everthing any problems she had. I love her so much...

A.   26 January 2008: It does sort of sound like your relationship is based around the kids. But until you sit her down and talk to her you will never know. Tell her how you feel and maybe she will open up to you. Also maybe you should be abit spontaneous take her away... (read in full...)

How should I go about making our relationship something more?

Q.   ok so im 17 now before u think "oh he's got a problem" please read everything. I really like a girl and we get on really well but my problem is that she is only 12 atm. Honestly, we just get on so well, we always make each other laugh and see lots...

A.   18 January 2008: I think you should leave this relationship until she is old enough. She is only 12 she is still only a child really. What you need to think about is what would you do if it was your sister in a relationship or flirting with a 17 year old? ... (read in full...)

Will I ever get over my girlfriend leaving me?

Q.   How does one accept that he must let go of somebody they love dearly? My girlfriend left me, after she decided that university would come between us. I have been supported by my good friends over the past couple of months, but I wonder if I'll ever ...

A.   18 January 2008: You will never forget you first love she will always be in your thoughts. It is going to be difficult for a while but the best thing to do is be around your friends. Your only young, so go out and enjoy yourself you never know you could meet ... (read in full...)

This 23 year-old guy gave me my first orgasm - I'm 38 and married. Should I move out to India to be with him?

Q.   If anyone out there can help ME GET MY HEAD STRAIGHT please do. At the end of Dec 2007 I met the most lovely, handsome and charming Indian man - problem is he is 23yrs old - 15yrs younger than me and I am married,I have always been faithful to...

A.   17 January 2008: Yes seriously sort your head out. You are willing to throw away your marriage over an orgasm...you have got to be joking me. You're not a teenager anymore lovely you're a 38 year old married woman. Forget about this man and stay with your husb... (read in full...)

How do I 'burn' the past?

Q.   It was my first love 6 years back, we were crazily inlove with each other. After a year things became distant and disturbed. One fine day he called it off...but after some discussions, we decided, we will try our best. But then things turned for the ...

A.   17 January 2008: Quite honestly he sounds like a wanker pardon my language. Instead of thinking of the past think of the future you and your husband are going to have. You will never forget your first love the person who stole your heart all that. Sounds like your ... (read in full...)

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