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How or what should I talk to him about?! I really get the feeling he likes me, and that he is shy as well!

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Question - (14 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, *orkieKrazed writes:

I just got out of a 3 and a half year relationship a month ago. I am so over it!

SO! There is a new guy at work, and he is very cute and sweet. I am 21 and he is 27. Age doesnt matter, but it is making me even more shy than I usually am to someone I am crushing on! I don't know how to act to an older guy! I want to talk to him, but about what? I have social anxiety disorder and just started taking Paxil, so I am opening up a little but not alot.

Anyways, my question is... How or what should I talk to him about?! I really get the feeling he likes me, and that he is shy as well!

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2007):

AskEve agony auntHere are some openers for you...

1. What do you like to do when you're not working?

2. Where in the world would you most like to visit?

3. Are you interested in sport... if so what sport?

4. What do you look for in your ideal partner?

5. What really turns you off?

6. What really turns you ON!

7. Where do you see yourself in 5 years from now?

8. (Apart from me...) are you an animal lover?

9. What is your favourite food?

10. Are you close to your family?

11. What is the first thing you look at in a man?

12. Where do you go to socialise?

13. What's your favourite drink?

14. What's your favourite meal?

15. Where would you choose to go on that ideal date?

16. Are you a morning or a night time person?

17. Do you like to entertain and give parties?

18. What's your dream car?

19. Do you like to keep up to date with the news and current affairs?

20. Would you like to see me again

Eve

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (14 March 2007):

kenny agony auntAsk him what he is up to at the weekend, or what he did at the weekend. Is he going on holiday this year? What did he do before he got this job? Are you enjoying it here?.

As you are talking to him throw in a couple of flirtatious gestures like direct eye contact, point you body, or feet in his direction, or touch his hand when taking something, and smile at him.

hope this helps you x

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