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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:How long is too long to try getting back with somebody? I broke up with my ex-boyfriend in March 2009 and recently I've been wanting to try and get him back. It was a long distance relationship and I don't think I was mature enough at the time to deal with that. (When we first started dating I was 16, he was 18). I had serious trust issues due to an abusive relationship when I was 14 (Yes, these do happen). I've since been to consuelling sessions and worked through a lot, if not all, of my issues. My ex and I still talk on the net a lot and I have a feeling he still has feelings for me. We were together for 3 months but had been in love with each other for a year previous. What I'm asking is do you think that it's possible that he still has feelings for me and would take me back even after a year? Or have I waited too long? Any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010): Hi. Well, I went for it. And he took me back. :) I guess that means you were right. Thank you for the advice.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (28 March 2010):
 I dont think there are any rules here.
My dad split up with his girlfried of a decade coz she cheated, ... spent another decade with another woman, ... split up with her, ... and a while after ended up back with the first woman. They were together for another decade until my father death and declared each other as being 'the love of their lives'.
I guess if it is meant to be, ...then it just will be and time won't be a factor!
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