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writes: How do you find out if the crush you have on someone, is mutual?The man I adore has stopped by to visit a few times already for an hour, we talk (by learning about eachother) and just before he exits his visit he gestures a snug hug and this last visit was a quick smooch (on the lips)...of course, I am hoping for a passionate kiss soon, how long should I wait for this passionate kiss for it to become mutual?Thank You in advance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for helping me feel confident about this man that I have adored; turns out we have both been thinking about eachother for a long while and it was mutual that we had liked eachother and just recently confessed amongst one another how we felt and our chemistry is becoming a relationship!
Thank you for that jolted boost to ease me into building that confidence to be honest with him as it did make it alot easier for both of us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis passed weekend, he had sent his brother to deliver a battery for my car (which I was going to eventually get on my own) I was surprised and smiling also delivered some of my favorite drink and he would have personally came around to deliver these himself, but he had to work.
How should I Thank this man?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can enlighten you a bit here: he did tell me that he remembered me 20 years ago, and that he was looking, checking me out; I just smiled and asked him why didn't he say something then? He shrugged his shoulders and the words couldn't come out (how funny).
While talking to him, I lost my track of thought and caught him not really paying attention to what I was rambling on about; when I asked him where I was going with what I was talking about (that was embarrassing) He smiled and admitted that he wasn't really listening. I could have said something then and asked where he was but didn't want to put him on the spot.
I do believe he is shy; yet at the same time very old school in the romancing department; I don't wish for his style to change. I believe that I am drawn to his personality as well as his looks.
I have even mentioned to him that I really think he's an attractive man.
When he's given me a snug hug, he makes this growl ( to where this means to him ...maybe it feels good to hold me)
Then that quick smooch (on our lips) was something that had me thinking non stop about him.
What bothers me, he doesn't like calling or use of the telephone, he just pops a visit.
I was actually thinking of him the day he stopped by ( is there such a thing of sending telepathic signals? LOL) and when he showed up, I wanted to tell him; but I couldn't.
I wanted to kick myself for not telling him in a flirtatious way.
So, I need flirtatious tips on how to and what I should do or say to avoid making myself or him feel uncomfortable or isn't there a way to avoid this awkwardness....or once we get past this it won't be so awkward?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2006): I think there is definitley a connection between you both, and maybe he is shy or does not want to offend you. So you should definitley guide him and make it clearer to him that this is what you want to happen. Good luck and enjoy !
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (19 August 2006):
 Look, the guy obviously likes you if he spending hours in your company...and all this cuddly wuddly stuff is his way of telling you that...next time he calls around, get flirting and see where that takes you...he will probably love the attention!
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