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*r.Derp
writes:I have a problem on my hands. A bi dude asked me if I wanted him to suck my dick. I replied I'm not sure, because I am already dating a girl. Honestly, I want my first sexual experience to be with a girl, but my girlfriend takes things slow,and were on our seventh date. Any suggestions to speed things up a bit? Thanks for the help, I appreciate it! Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr.Derp +, writes (15 September 2015):
Dr.Derp is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have read you're answers, and I will take you're advice. Thank you all for helping. Sincerely-Dr.Derp :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2015): stop trying with the girl and just become openly gay.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 September 2015):
 How old is your girlfriend?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (14 September 2015):
 Yeah, sex generally happens when it's long been decided that there is no one else on the planet that you would be "not sure" you'd let perform a sexual act on you.
"Bisexual" doesn't mean simultaneous.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (13 September 2015):
 If I were your girlfriend and I overheard that you replied you are not sure, instead of absolutely not to that bi guy, that would make me either slow things way down or rethink about dating you. It sounds like you are in the relationship for sexual gratification, and that's exactly what makes girls take things slow. If you date a girl for reasons besides that you love her and want to be with her in and out of the bedroom, it's going to back fire after you get what you want.
This girl wants you to love her before you have sex with her. Can you speed up your love? Can you speed up making her a priority and not talk and flirt with people to the point of talking about blow jobs?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 September 2015):
 How about you make her your official girlfriend, rather than just counting the amounts of dates you've been on? If you ask me, if you are still there where you are COUNTING the dates you've been on, then she's not your girlfriend. Ask her to go exclusive and official with you, then perhaps things will "speed up".
Word of advice though: women, or people in general, rarely like being looked upon as a means to an end, in other words: as your playthings in order for you to reach sexual satisfaction.
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