A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:so basically, im a girl and i met a girl. we got on as friends. i started having feelings for her and told her. she got all weird about it and started distancing herself from me. then all of a sudden she started wanting to hang out with me, just the two of us. When we were watching tv together in my flat, she initiated a cuddle on my bed and then kissed me. we ended up having sex.the next day she was weird again but we had sex again a week later, initiated by her again. since then she has been so weird. she says she doesnt regret it but doesnt want anything to happen between us. she sent me a text saying...'im scared what people would say, im scared what people would think. im scared i cant give you what you want and im scared im just using you. i dont think i am but what if i hurt you'.problem is...im totally in love with her. i see her every single day. we live in the same building, we work in the same place, we have the same friends. i cant avoid her. after she told me she doesnt want anything ever to happen with us i deleted her number and tried to avoid her which worked for a while. then we all went out for a friends birthday and when we were dancing she grabbed me off the dancefloor, took me outside the club and kissed me up against a wall. i told her this wasnt fair and she apologised and went home. shes been very distant ever since and i felt that i was getting over her. then about a week ago we started meeting up with a bunch of our other friends and spending time with her has brought all my feelings back. i just cant resist this girl. i love everything about her even though she is totally crazy. she couldnt sleep the other day so came over to my flat and slept in my bed next to me!!are these the actions of a girl that doesnt want anything to happen? is she crazy?!! is she intentionally hurting me? does she just love the attention?? how am i ever supposed to get over her?? she drives me mad, i hate how she makes me feel but when we are alone im sure there is something in her that wants me. this has been going on for about 8 months now. what more can i do?? ive ignored her, ive given her attention, ive deleted her from my life, ive looked after her when shes poorly, ive told her how special she is, ive told her she drives me crazy, ive confronted her about it.....what more can i do?if anybody has any wise words i would be most appreciative. thankyou xxx
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