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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok so me and my ex broke up for good in about november but we had been on and off since june of the same year. no contact between november and early december. he then contacted me and said he is moving a few states away. i was devastated. we hung out many times before he finally left for good in late january. it felt like it did before and i cried so much when we really had to say goodbye. he was upset too and tried to comfort me, saying he`d definately visit and he will miss me. i wanted him back sooo much. even though our relationship was far from perfect. he had been (and still is) taking steroids and we would fight all the time because he would become enraged so easily. i miss him so much. hes coming back for a visit this weekend and will be sleeping over. the other night we were texting and i said "it will be weird for us to hang out again haha it'll be like old times.. only not :P" and he said "haha well it jus might baby ;)". this jus made me miss him more. i really think i may be in love with him... he is a senior in high school and im a sophomore. so he will be leaving where he lives now for college and the military on top of it. the distance kills me. how do i make him realize this weekend how much i truly miss him? thank you!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 March 2010):
You're asking for pain. This is a bad boy. He's using steroids, and becomes enraged too easily. It's only a matter of time before he hurts you even more. To add to that, you were on/off anyway, which is a sign that it's not meant to be. You're just asking to be used and abused. If he loved you, then he would have really worked hard to make it work. You're asking for pain.
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