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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I think my fwb is gay. I have a close guy friend. Besides the benefits, We have so much in common, he's my soulmate. When I first met him I thought he was gay and I was cool with that, I asked him and he flat out denied it. Seduced me to prove a point, it was cozy, comforting but not hot and passionate. I love him to bits. But sex with him just doesn't do it for me. But the practicing is fun...he digs my bjs, is into my ass instead of my boobs. dresses waaaay nicer than me. Is annoyed when I don't wear makeup or heels. He has unusual quirks. Also I think he went thru some personal tragedy when he was young...he was an older virgin before we hooked up. I was only with one other guy before him five years. I told him I love him to much to be fwb, but he says we are fwb for life. With or without sex. My problem is I think he is using me for sex to avoid admitting to himself he is gay. I'm a kinky girl and I have no problem doing some of his favorite things. But I am starting to imagine us living together vacationing meeting each others family...We've been friends for two years but only in the last six months did we start getting intimate. I've put a stop to random calls and text, just to cool things and I'm going to start looking for other guys to date and hang with. But I miss him :( and his cooking and his jokes and his cozy sex. How do I end a fwb relationship, but keep the friend, becos I love the friend more than the benefits?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): I went out with a guy for 6 months a few years ago,he was abit like this guy you describe,a older virgin never bothered with girls much.
just rencently i have been in contact with him again,he still the same,never lets his wall down with women,hes in his 40s never been in a serious relationship,and i think he maybe gay,i would be interested to see what others have to say about this as i have the same problem.im addicted to the guy.
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