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36-40,
*aj
writes:Hi allMy boyfriend is in love with another girl. I want him to be mine. We were great friends for 2 years. He thought i don't care him, well cos i was very rude to him from the start to hide from him that i'm in love with him. He was shocked to hear i'm in love with him. He wont leave his lover for me. But now he loves me a lot. He is making me feel like i'm his lover. He is saying i cant anyhow marry you but i'll give you all my love till the day you become some one's wife. He's loving me so much.I think its like cheating myself, my future husband and his lover. What shall i do? Shall i allow him to love me? Is there any possibility that he will be mine, but surely i don't want to hurt his lover. Reply to this Question
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reader, loria  +, writes (18 July 2008):
How r u gonna find anyone to love and marry u when your hangin on to a dream that he cant fulfil and by some freak chance that u do find someone youll b so confused and messed up from being with this ahole that youll screw it up because your used to disfuntion and drama. He doesnt love you he loves what you provide for him he throws bits and peices at you like thats all your worth and basically you feed his ego and men like him need that because thats all he is is one big EGO love yourself ask him to leave his girlfreind tell him how hurt and lost you are see what he does and read between the lines when he speaks you know its not what you want or need otherwise you wouldnt be posting all these questions youd be happy THINK ABOUT IT LOVE YOURSELF not some fool that disgards your heart once he walks out the door..... Id rather be alone then be with someone and be alone
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reader, xaj +, writes (15 July 2008):
xaj is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDo you think he is cheating me.I think he wants to make me happy and to return the love i gave him.Isn't it!
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reader, xaj +, writes (15 July 2008):
xaj is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi dear thanx for your ans.But the thing s i'm realy confused.I know its not gud to go on lik this.But its that i cant forget him.Can u suggest some thing dear?
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reader, loria +, writes (15 July 2008):
Im sorry but ARE YOU FOR REAL move on hes using you and if by some freak chance he leaves her and ends up with you chances are hell screw around on you too and if you dont want to hurt her then Dont and frankly you deserve better my god
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