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xlipgloss06x
writes:well.. i really like this lad and have done for quite a long time and me and him have become quite close as mates.. and we have been talking more at school and on msn and we have been texting quite alot and he has been proper flirting with me at school..recently my mate told me she told this lad that i liked him .. and now hes not been the same around me e.g not flirtin as much my mate told me he might just need time to think things out as he has split up with his gf not so long ago but the thing is he told me he is well over his ex and he dont want anything to do with her anymore and his ex has already moved on and got another lad so i dont see why she has moved on and he cant .. i really dont no what to do i want him like to ask me out or something the other day his mates come upto me and keep telling me to ask him out because he never stops going on about me and he always stares at me aswell pls help how do i no weather i should ask him on not ... xxx luv me
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (14 October 2007):
Yes you should ask him out. Or you could say to him: "When are you going to ask me out?"
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reader, Miss C + ♥, writes (14 October 2007):
 I've drawn up a conclusion to what might be the case here. One of them is that perhaps he is not ready to move on to another relationship so quickly after finishing with his ex (just like your friend said.) Just because he is over his ex, it deosn't mean he's ready to jump into another relationship. Perhaps he's worried he will encounter the same problems with you as he did with his ex gf and therefore wants to take things slow by establishing a friendship first and this may be his reasons for fliritng with you less. This may sounds pretty old fashioned here but i think you should let him chase you and ask you out. This is because you've already made it clear that you fancy him and by waiting for him to ask you out, you will know that it's because he's ready to be in a relationship again. Best of luck! Miss C xx
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